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Mom and coach arrested for hosting underage drinking party

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This is why you should reconsider letting your kids drink at home

A Pennsylvania baseball coach and a student's mother were arrested and charged with conspiracy and corruption of minors for hosting a party for high school kids.

Sounds extreme, doesn't it? But the fact is, when you let kids drink at home, you face the very real threat of arrest. Fifty-three-year-old baseball coach Glynn Boitnott and 47-year-old mom Marcella Edwards allegedly allowed Edwards' son to throw a homecoming party at Boitnott's home. When police broke up the party, the adults were held responsible.

When I was an older teen, I had plenty of parties at my parents' house before I turned 21. I think back and cringe. While it was awesome to stay somewhere safe where we didn't have to drive and we could get a little wild, it wasn't a smart move. Had the parties been broken up or had one of my friends gotten hurt or sick from drinking, my parents could have been in deep trouble.

Now, as a parent, I feel a lot more conservative about underage drinking. College students are one thing — where there's booze, they'll find a way — but high school kids aren't adults and suck at making good choices. A lot can go wrong when you let teens get wasted. A neighbor of mine recently let his 16-year-old son host a full-on party at home, and it really shocked me. It's irresponsible — and it's playing with fire if you're not into the idea of getting arrested for corrupting kids.

Will I allow my own kids to try alcohol at home before they're 21? Absolutely. The lines are pretty blurry unless you're talking about a big homecoming or keg party, and I know every parent will be faced with individual judgment calls. But big parties? No way. With binge drinking posing a very real threat to teens and many state laws prohibiting providing minors with alcohol, it seems like a no-brainer. Don't be that "cool" parent. The stakes are too high.

More on teens and drinking

Why you shouldn't get drunk around your kids
Your kids will end up trying alcohol so talk to them before they do
Can teenage drinking lead to alcoholism?

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