The funny thing about childbirth is that most of us go into it with the best expectations. Sure, you may have heard a horror story or two or three from well-meaning relatives who “just want you to know what you’re getting into” before your water breaks — but for most women, the outlook is optimistic until something in the delivery room goes terribly wrong.
I know for myself, this naive optimism prior to birth had a lot to do with preserving my sanity. If I thought about everything that could and would go wrong after going into labor, I would have spent every night leading up to the big day in anxious fits of sleep. And we all know pregnant women need their sleep.
I was fortunate to have a positive birth experience, but for every time that I have shared my story, I have heard dozens of responses from women who felt quite the opposite. Yes, it is possible to go into a hospital or birthing center and come out with a healthy, happy baby. It is also possible to go in the same doors and come out as a survivor of a traumatic experience that may even leave you with postpartum PTSD.
ImprovingBirth.org has started a Facebook movement to encourage women to break the silence and speak out about trauma and abuse in childbirth. The hashtag #breakthesilence caught on like social media wildfire, proving that most women with a traumatic birth experience are just looking for an outlet of encouragement and support.
ImprovingBirth.org states on their Facebook page, “As difficult as it is to remember and revisit past trauma, our collective silence is what allows that abuse to happen again to someone else.”
If you too have a traumatic birth story, don’t hold it in. You can #breakthesilence:
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