If you and your spouse just can't seem to see eye to eye on discipline, consider employing one of the following techniques to come to a consensus.
Many couples assume that they will parent well together simply because they love one another and enjoy each other's company. Parenting conflicts, however, are a common source of contention between spouses. We spoke with Dr. Tina Paone, clinical director of the Counseling Center at Heritage in Montgomeryville, Pennsylvania, to get her advice on how to manage parenting conflict between spouses.
Just like disagreements about finances and sex, parenting choices can become an ongoing argument between spouses. Discussions often grow volatile because parenting choices are tied to individual values and experiences with parenting from childhood. "Varied parenting styles can be a point of contention between spouses because parenting 'norms' vary from person to person," Dr. Paone said. "These ideas are learned during childhood, and your spouse's parents parented differently than your parents did when you were a child."
Although parenting arguments can take countless forms, Dr. Paone grouped typical disagreements into two separate categories:
No matter the situation with your spouse, Dr. Paone states that it's extremely important to present a united front to the children at all times. Here are several techniques and best practices that Dr. Paone recommends to build a united front with your spouse:
Finally, Dr. Paone stated that co-parenting counseling is beneficial for couples who are tired of disagreeing but don't know how to come to a consensus. The process is helpful for married and divorced couples alike. Finding ways to agree on parenting will benefit both your relationship and your child, so it's important to invest in solutions that work.
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