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6 masturbation positions for some damn good 'me time'

Jamie Beckman is the lead blogger for the Sexcerpts blog on SheKnows.com. She has written about relationships, health and lifestyle trends for Redbook, USA TODAY, Men's Journal, Men's Health, Best Life and First for Women magazines, as w...

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Hot tips to give yourself a hand

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Hot tips to give yourself a hand

When Buzzfeed conducted an off-the-cuff survey in 2014, they confirmed what most of us already know to be true -- the majority of women, estimated at 87 percent, love a good one-woman show. And 46 percent of us take our sweet time, up to 30 minutes, in our average masturbation sesh. Besides the fun factor, there are a few good reasons to unwind with some solo self love instead of (or in addition to) your usual glass of wine at the end of a long day.

First, you'll get more orgasms in the long run — and hotter sex if getting it on with your long-term partner has become a snooze.

"Women who masturbate are more likely to have orgasms during partnered sex, and we believe that this finding is related to an increase in comfort and knowledge with regard to her body," says Jessica O'Reilly, Ph.D., author of The Little Book of Kink. "By experimenting with different positions, you can discover new pathways to orgasm and stave off the sexual ruts that arise due to repetition and monotony."

You'll also feel more comfortable speaking up about your needs during partnered sex.

"The more you know your body, what you like and what you don't, the more you can communicate with current and future partners about what you want, need and crave," says Shanna Katz, M.Ed., ACS, author of Your Pleasure Map.

Time to close your bedroom door and get down with your sexy self!

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Opening Up

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Opening Up

How you do it: Sit on a chair that doesn't have arms, like a dining room or folding chair. Tuck your feet and ankles around the chair legs, leaving your legs open.

Why it's awesome: "It provides much more access to all of the delicious bits between your legs, and when you climax, you can brace your legs against the chair legs. By exposing more parts of your vulva, you will experience some new — and sometimes even more intense — sensations than you usually do," Katz says.

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The Leg Shaver

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The Leg Shaver

How you do it: In the shower, place one foot on the side of the tub or shower seat, allowing full open access to your vulva. (If you don’t have anything to prop your foot on, simply lean back against a wall and move one knee to the side.) Use your fingers or use the removable showerhead stream to tease, or pick up your favorite water-resistant vibrator for guaranteed orgasms. Or rotate among all three!

Why it's awesome: "Masturbating while standing is an awesome position style that too many women ignore," says Sadie Allison, Ph.D., author of Tickle Your Fancy: A Woman's Guide to Self-Pleasure. "The Leg Shaver not only gives you great access to your vulva and vagina, but it also lends itself to a little leg and core muscle toning, as you need to work a little harder to keep your body weight vertical. This, in turn, naturally flexes your pelvic floor muscles, offering more sensation to the 'feel-good' nerves in your genitals’ erectile tissue."

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Superstar

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Superstar

How you do it: Begin on your knees on the bed, or another soft and comfy surface, with your upper body upright. Gently open your knees to a position that feels comfortable for you. Supporting yourself with one arm, you can lean back or lean forward to hold onto a headboard or the wall. 

Why it's awesome: "Because you can modify this in so many ways — changing angles, using multiple toys for penetration and/or external stimulation — you can discover new spots and new things that get your motor going. Leaning forward and back can provide new sensations, and it allows you to open up the rest of your body for exploration and play with your fingers, toys, even nipple clamps. Experiment and have fun," Katz says.

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The Solo Snake

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The Solo Snake

How you do it: Lie on your stomach and grind your pelvic bone and clitoris against a hand or a vibrating toy beneath you.

Why it's awesome: "The weight of your body adds extra friction against the hood of your clitoris, and the back-and-forth grinding strokes the shaft of your clitoris as it becomes erect," O'Reilly says.

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On Your Knees

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On Your Knees

How you do it: Keeping your knees wide open, kneel on the floor or the bed. Use this position to press and ride a firm surface beneath you, like a toy, the mattress, a pillow or your hand.

Why it's awesome: "You can rock back and forth, slide forward and backward, or roll the hips in a circular fashion according to your own preferences," O'Reilly says. "In this position, the extra blood flow to your pelvic region can help with both arousal and orgasm."

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Self-lovin' sex positions

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Self-lovin' sex positions

Originally published Jan. 2014. Updated Sept. 2016.

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