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You've heard it before: Men want sex. Women want scented candles and cuddle time.

While this might be the prevailing stereotype about bedroom politics, we're not entirely convinced it's true. BDSM has gone from a leather-bound secret to the grace note in just about every red-blooded female's happy hour conversation. Erotic novels are the new LaVerle Spencer, thanks to the popularity of E.L. James' best-selling Fifty Shades of Grey. Women are also taking a more dominant role in both the home and workplace.

But are ladies as edgy outside of the bedroom as they are in? We surveyed more than 2,500 readers as part of our February Valentine's Day Issue to get some hard answers.

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When it comes to being in love, women prefer to go the traditional route.

Earliest point at which the average woman says "I love you": One month

Breakups

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Number of women who would break up with a guy if he became overweight: 21 percent

Number of women who believe maintaining a certain body weight for your partner is important: Nearly 60 percent

About 40 percent of women claim to have cheated.

Most common reason for cheating: Stronger connection

Is a guy's salary important to you? 73 percent say no.

Let's talk about sex

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About 30 percent said they incorporate "naughty" elements, like kinky positions, sex toys and lingerie.

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More than 40 percent said they never make excuses to get out of sex. Those who do blame stress and fatigue.

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Most popular sex position: Missionary, with doggie-style in close second. Overall, women seem to like different positions but gravitate most toward "him on top," whether it works for them or not. Speak up, ladies!

Desired duration of a good sex session: 30 to 45 minutes

Actual duration: Between 10 and 30 minutes

Average number of women who do not fake orgasms: 60 percent

Most popular place other than the bedroom to have sex: Living room

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The majority of women surveyed say they look forward to Valentine's Day. Only about 24 percent said it's just another Hallmark holiday.

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Should a guy always send flowers on V-Day?

Yes – 23%

No – 27%

Sometimes, but not every time -- 49%

The most the average woman will spend on a guy for Valentine's Day: $100

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Comments on "Survey: Women want hearts and flowers, with a side of kinky sex"

Hannah February 07, 2013 | 3:09 PM

Whoa! I guess I'm the only one who hasn't jumped on the kinky bandwagon. Interesting article, though. :)

Lisa February 07, 2013 | 12:57 PM

Interesting to see the results. I took the survey and I'm pretty sure I was in the majority here.

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