Bride and groom

Weddings are such complicated and exciting events; it’s easy to be so caught up in the rush that you miss the day itself! Use these tips to get the very best out of the special day you’ve planned and worked so hard for!

Make the most
of your big day

Get lots of sleep the night before

Consider throwing your bachelorette party a week or two before the ceremony so you can party your heart out -- without paying for it during the ceremony. If you’re too tired to focus on your vows or a headache stops you from having a great first dance, you’ll be sad, so stock up on your beauty sleep!

Have a moment with your bridesmaids before you all walk down the aisle

Many of your girl friends will be emotional and worried as they lose you from the gang of single gals! Grab them in a group hug, let them know you love them and be together one last time. If you have a few minutes, this is also a great time to give them cards about how much their friendship means to you. A moment with just you and the girls will help calm your nerves.

Don't wear your wedding night lingerie to the ceremony

This might be obvious, but you’ll have several hours between putting on that cute lace and silk and the time when your special someone gets to see it on you. Whether it's laughing a little too hard at your reception or dancing yourself sweaty, you'll want to save the nice stuff for later, so it can look pretty and fresh when it counts.

No worrying within 24 hours of the ceremony

This means it doesn’t matter if the cake icing doesn’t match the bridesmaid dresses or if the flower arrangement is crooked. Your job as event planner stops the day before the wedding. After that, you just enjoy yourself. This is the key to making sure the day doesn’t rush past without you. Promise yourself that you will just go with the flow, and make yourself absorb every beautiful minute and detail. You’ll be glad you did.

Focus on your husband-to-be

If, in spite of your best efforts, things get too chaotic, quiet your mind with the reassuring delight of loving and knowing the man you're going to be with for the rest of your life. Imagine the sweetness of a honeymoon with just the two of you and the life you’re building together. If you can do this, everything else starts to get trivial and you start to smile.

Are you ready? I wish you and your beloved the fullest happiness!

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Comments on "5 Must-dos as you prep for your wedding day"

Elise Stephens June 25, 2012 | 12:30 PM

Theresa--So true! That day really is about the two of you, and your wedding is a perfect time to start practicing thinking in those terms! :) Emma--Things for confirming that these work! I'm glad you agree!

Theresa June 22, 2012 | 3:55 PM

I'm married and have been Matron of Honor twice (well once, and one coming next April!). I like the last suggestion the best - focus on your husband. As incredible as it is to have all of your family and friends with you on your big day, the reason for this day is because you met the love of your life. Cherish every moment of that day and remember how you feel. It will come in handy when the bickering starts hahah!!

Emma June 18, 2012 | 2:27 PM

I think these tips are so helpful! I am pretty much the ultimate bridesmaid and from observing the preparations and special day, these tips are very realistic. It can be so hard for the bride and all the girls if you party to hard leading up to the big day. Spacing out the festivities makes you can all enjoy them!

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