Q&A

What can women do to turn their man on?

How to spice up your sex life

Part two of a four-part series

Dr. Laura Berman, OB/GYN, was a frequent guest on The Oprah Winfrey Show, and now has her own show called In the Bedroom on the OWN network. She talked with Jamie Beckman, relationships writer for SheKnows and editor of SheKnows' sex blog, Sexcerpts, about moves women can make to create some serious passion when making love with their partner.

Men aren't tough to please, that's for sure, but if you really want to turn up the heat, how can you turn him on big time?

In the video, Dr. Berman offers this sex advice:

• With men, you don't have to try too hard to set the mood — just letting him know you've been thinking of him is enough to get his neurons firing. "Even if you text him during the day and say, 'I was just thinking about what we did last night...' that is a great way to connect him," Dr. Berman says.
• Compliment him, even when it's not sex related: "Give your partner five genuine expressions of appreciation a day," she says — whether it's for picking up your dry cleaning or cooking you dinner.
• Saying "Let's have sex" is always effective!

Want to give him a little eye candy post-romp? Try donning one of his button-down shirts after you've had sex — especially if you're planning to lounge around the house. Read about the other surprising things that real guys like a woman to wear in this SheKnows article: Wear this to drive him wild.

More with Dr. Laura Berman

How to spice up your sex life: Part 1
How to spice up your sex life: Part 3
How to spice up your sex life: Part 4