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Sexy ways to surprise him on date night

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How to surprise your man

Whether you've been married for years or have been dating for just a few months, show your man how much you appreciate him by planning some sexy surprises for date night.

Couple flirting in the kitchen

Cook for him

Instead of date night out on the town, plan date night in. Cook for him and serve all his favorite foods. Make the meal an event, starting with appetizers before moving on to the main course and finishing off with dessert. He'll appreciate all the time and effort you put in to make dinner special. If you can't cook, have a caterer or restaurant do all the hard work for you. Include a few sexy aphrodisiacs on the menu.

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Dress to impress

Even if you're hanging out at home, dress up. Your man probably thinks you look great in a tee and yoga pants, but that doesn't mean you should wear them every single day. For date night, put on something sexy and alluring. He'll love to see you in anything that reveals your cleavage or shows off your legs. Also, wear some color. Though black is slimming, men think red is the sexiest color of all.

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Entice him by text

Leading up to the date, send him a text message or email telling him how much you want him, the things you want to do to him, and what he does for you that makes you really hot. You'll get his motor revved up before he even gets home from work.

Book a hotel room

If you're going out, stop by a hotel bar for after-dinner drinks. After you've had a few cocktails, surprise him by pulling a key card out of your pocket. No matter how long you've been together, hotel sex is always sexy and exciting.

Give him a lap dance

Surprise him by turning up the music and giving him a lap dance. Every man likes a little grinding. An unexpected strip tease or lap dance is a surefire way to surprise him on date night.

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Act out his fantasies

Make his night really special by giving into his desires in the bedroom. If there's something that he's been wanting to do, be willing to give it a try; you could surprise yourself and love it. You also can surprise him with a new sexual position, a sex toy or a little role playing.

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