Do You Have These?

Girls are guilty of having their lists of what traits make the perfect man, but we have our own list of what makes the perfect woman. In my opinion, here are six traits that make up the perfect woman.

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1She's sexy not slutty

There's a huge misconception that guys think the perfect woman needs to dress slutty. Guys like sexy women, and there's a huge difference between showing some skin and wearing a micro miniskirt to dinner with your boss. The perfect woman knows how to pull off being sexy perfectly with style and confidence. She dresses with the right mix of sassiness without giving away the goods. The perfect woman can flirt with her eyes and not just with her body.

2She's cool

Some of the biggest fights couples have are over watching sports, too much that is. The perfect woman understands that men need to watch sports because it's in our DNA. The perfect woman knows this and is cool with the fact that we don't want to go lamp shopping on a Sunday afternoon in the fall. We'd much rather be parked on the couch watching football.

3She's smart & funny

Guys like when a woman laughs at their jokes, but we also like when they add to the comedy. The perfect woman should be able to keep up and add to the banter. She should have an opinion, be well read or at least watch or read the news. Women say guys like to talk about themselves, but we really want a great partner to have a real conversation with and not a bimbo that laughs at everything we say.

4She's got her life together

Guys want to feel needed but not to have to be the only thing in a woman's life. The perfect woman has a career, her own set of friends and something she's passionate about outside the relationship. There's no bigger turn off than a woman who latches on to your life and invades every aspect of it.

5She's real

No guy wants a Real Housewives crazy drama queen. Relationships aren't always the best of times and when there is a fight, we want a woman who's real and grounded. When there's an argument, we don't want a woman who gets crazy and spits venom because that's a one way ticket to Splitsville. The perfect woman can have a mature conversation about the issue at hand and rationally work through the issue with me.

6She loves

Guys are like puppies — we want to be loved. What does that mean? When we're having a bad day, we need unconditional support. When we look good, tell us. When we really put on a show in the bedroom, let us know we're doing a good job. The perfect woman knows how to unconditionally love her man.

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Comments on "6 Top traits in the perfect woman"

maina dulal August 27, 2013 | 9:43 AM

the womwn who always let her husband wins is the best women,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Talia August 12, 2013 | 3:12 PM

I agree with all the above points, EXCEPT for the one about sports. My father was a guy who never understood the drive for sports, and was more of a geek, into films and trivia and gaming. I ended up pretty much like that, and am now engaged to a guy who would much sooner go see the new Sci-fi film than go to a soccer match. Neither of us really understand the drive some men have with sports, and we're both just two normal people who love each other.

Deb Gabriel March 19, 2013 | 3:43 PM

What makes a woman perfect is being able to testify that he is not smarter than you, he has just had better opportunities to show the world what a moron he can be. It makes perfect sense to me, how about you? Ladies?

Bono January 01, 2013 | 10:18 AM

Not even close.. the perfect woman, that's way beyond what you can describe.. The description above is for the perfect girlfriend or wife, not woman (or person)... the perfect person is completely independent, doesn't give a damn about you, is perfectly self confident, someone you cannot reach.. think of it, the most attractive people are people you can impossibly reach! she's funny, beautiful, smart and succesful allright, but she doesn't need anybody for it. that's the kind of person I fell in love with, and the kind of person I've become! :-)

meli October 02, 2012 | 3:10 PM

A perfect woman is a woman that is your best friend but you cant get your hands off of her. A woman that will break down in tears of laughter no matter who is arround, even if it embarrases you a little. Someone who has her priorities straight, but you still know that she would drop everything in a second for you. Someone that will help you look your best and do your best because you honestly feel that your acomplishments will make her as happy as they will you. A woman that you can literally tell anything to without being afraid that she'll judge you because she loves you for you more than those other not so insignificant/ very important parts of a relationship. A woman that enojoys her alone time, friend time, and relationship time just as much as the other. Basically, the perfect woman is that will actually be your best ------- friend forever.

Robert July 11, 2012 | 12:51 AM

Statistically, it is not the same these days- women really are more caituous drivers still! Also, you have to consider that even if in the last couple of years men had improved their driving habits, the insurance companies will continue to look at the trends over a longer period of time rather than short spurts of improvement because those trends will give them a better idea of how to protect themselves.

Lauren June 01, 2012 | 8:09 AM

Give a guy his space, too. My guy likes to come home from work and veg out for an hour or so. He doesn't like to be swarmed with questions and plans. I give him his hour, and then him and I have dinner and go about our evening. Since he's gotten his alone time, he's more in tune with me the rest of our evening.

nima December 18, 2011 | 11:44 AM

i think a perfect woman is one that knows wat her guy wants, when and how he wants it done.importantly treat the Guy like a baby and he'l reciprocate

LL October 07, 2011 | 10:31 AM

One thing will make a perfect woman....women let a man be a man! There is nothing that will turn a man off when a woman says, she don't need a man" Even if you know how to the things a man can do, so what! Let him do it!

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