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Match.com relationship expert Whitney Casey advises that singles hold off on adding potential paramours to Facebook. Adding someone too early could complicate things if you decide you no longer like the person - and now you have to see them every time you sign in to Facebook. Casey says you also have to remember that whoever you add as a friend (and who accepts said friendship request) now has a glimpse into your daily life, so if you blow him off and then go to a party (and post pics from that party) he'll know that you weren't sick or busy with work like you told him. "Facebook is for networking, keeping family and friends up to speed on what's going on or catching up with high school buddies," Casey says. Your dating life and your social networking life should be kept separate.
If you've already added a few guys to Facebook that you've met or gone on a few dates with, don't panic. Delete any you genuinely didn't like -- Facebook after all is supposed to be for friends and people you actually enjoy. For anyone you're currently still seeing, just be wary of what you post and what gets posted about you. If you've been out with a guy three or four times and its going well, he might change his mind if he sees that photo of you sitting on someone else's lap, even if it was in jest and meaningless. The point is to be careful if you're going to mix dating with Facebook.
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