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5 Things to never do in bed

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Sex no-nos

Whether it's a one night stand or a long term relationship, some things should be left out of the bedroom. Never do any of these five things in bed.

Sex no-nos

Don't say "I love you" if you don't mean it

The worst place to say "I love you" for the first time is during sex. If you accidentally start to say it, try to change it to "I lust you" or something else as quick as possible.

Don't talk about how fat you are

We all feel a little fat when we are naked. Your partner doesn't want to hear it. If you are secure enough to get naked with him, you shouldn't feel like you have to mention your weight.

Don't be afraid to show him the way

If you want to enjoy sex with a new partner, you are going to have to show him the way to please you. Move his hand/member, slid your hips, and vocalize what makes you feel good.

Don't talk about your ex

Right before, during or after sex, don't talk about you ex. Even if it's in a negative way, your partner will think you are still hung up on your past relationship.

Don't act grossed out

If you decide to give your man a blow job, don't act disgusted once you get started. If you really hate going down on a guy, don't even go there in the first place.

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