Don't Be Shy
Looking to spice up your sex life with a sex toy? They can be a lot of fun, but the wide variety of sex toys out there can leave you feeling overwhelmed and even more so if you’ve never used a sex toy with your partner. Here are a few ideas that will spark your curiosity and leave you both feeling thoroughly fulfilled.
An innocent vibrating egg
A vibrating egg or bullet is versatile and can be used with your partner or solo. Not only does it get the job done every time, but it happens to be one of the more moderately priced sex toys out there. An unthreatening egg suits even the tamest of couples and works via a remote control connected to a thin cord. Depending on what kind of mood you're in, you can adjust the pleasure settings and enjoy. Aside from being discrete, it is also easy to clean.
Interested in being dominated or dominating him? Handcuffs are a great way to test the waters when it comes to bondage. They're mainstream and can be used during foreplay or sex itself. Tease him a little bit, or let him tease you, but be sure to set some ground rules ahead of time. Maybe you'll want to add a blindfold and a whip next time.
Nothing is more intimidating than a huge dildo, so make sure you start small when introducing a sex toy into the relationship. An unassuming "Pocket Rocket" is small enough to turn you on, but not big enough to turn your partner off. The vibrations are just as strong as larger vibrators but without the "wow, we're using a sex toy" realization. Use it to stimulate yourself or let him take the lead.
There are many types of lubricants and oils available that can enhance your sexual pleasure depending on what you're trying to achieve. Warming lubricants and scented oils are just two of the many options that can take a regular sexual experience to the next level. Remember to always use a lubricant that is compatible with your sex toy to avoid damaging it. For those looking for something out of the ordinary, try a flavored water-based lubricant made to heighten oral sex. If you're not ready for a full-blown sex toy, try a scented massage oil to help get you and your partner in the mood.
Vibrating penis ring
Many women have trouble reaching orgasm from sex alone and a vibrating penis ring can help with that. What is it, you ask? A penis ring is an o-shaped ring that fits around the shaft restricting blood flow. It can result in harder erections, longer lasting erections, and a whole bunch of new sensations. The vibrating ring can be directed at the testicles or the woman's clitoris for extra stimulation.
Whatever sex toy you end up choosing, make sure it's one with which both partners are comfortable. Don't forget to have fun because without fun, what's the point?
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