"A guy analyzes your entire outfit, including its fit. Know that what you wear and how you wear it will be an indication of how a guy will treat you. Dress sexy, not slutty. Leave something to our imagination." – Mike, 27, Tulsa
"Hair twirling and putting on lipstick in front of me drive me crazy. It is a sign that they are either shallow or really insecure. I like a woman who is confident and fidgety says the exact opposite." – Grant, 32, Seattle
"Give a guy a firm hug and a nice kiss on the cheek at the end of your encounter. This will keep him focused until you meet up again." – Romeo, 34, Phoenix
"A woman who blabs on and on will never get a date with me, especially the ones that drone on about themselves. A conversation should be balanced. If not, all I am reminded of is my nagging mother." – Gabe, 33, San Antonio
"Girls often treat a first meeting like a press conference – as if they are filtering out prospects as fast as possible. That feels really unnatural, [and] by the third question, I just filter her out. When you first meet someone, it should feel organic." – Jalen, 26, Los Angeles
"I love a good spirited conversation, but a woman who starts arguing with me the first time I meet her is a big turn-off. This shows that she is overly aggressive and perhaps way too competitive." – Steve, 35, Boston
"The number-one way to end my fantasies of being with you is by being impolite. I mean, come on: Is it really that hard to say 'thank you' when I buy you a drink or score you a seat at the bar?" – Justin, 29, New York
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