10 Signs he's cheating on you

Posted in Love & Sex / Marriage & Relationships

Is He
A Cheater?

Studies reveal that 50 to 60 percent of married men engage in extramarital sex at one time or another during their marriage. Often the women in their lives have no clue what they did. You need to have some basic knowledge to protect yourself. So how does one spot a cheater? Here are 10 warning signs that your man may stray... or that he is already cheating on you.

Unfaithful man in bed

1He has cheated before

Undoubtedly, past cheating behavior is the most reliable predictor for future cheating behavior.

2He is a narcissist

People with narcissistic personality traits feel that they're entitled to more things than other people. They're more likely to cheat because they feel they don't have to play by the rules.

3He has no sense of guilt

Men who don't feel remorse or guilt when they do something wrong are prime candidates for cheating. They won't have those emotions holding them back.

4He's an excellent liar

If he is good at lying about other things in his life, then he is likely good at lying to you about cheating.

5He learned it at home

If one or both of his parents were routinely unfaithful, then he is more likely to be inclined to cheat.

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Comments on "10 Signs he's cheating on you"

amy December 15, 2011 | 7:17 PM

Ok its pretty good. But a lot of those so called signs go along with working a lot raising kids working more than one job. You can just be exhausted and show those signs.

Steve December 04, 2011 | 3:56 PM

As a very experienced guy and knowing a lot of men who cheat and a lot who don't.... I would comment that 6, 7, 8 are not very good indicators.... the reality of long term committed relationships is that partners have different interests, different behaviors, and life crises like career changes happen.... It's very unrealistic to expect nightly cuddling, intimacy on demand, and spending every leisure minute together after 6 plus years of every day living together... unless you are emotionally 16 forever.... things change, we become older, we have our own interests... it's natural. Being a long term commitment guy that would never dream of straying, I can tell you that the last thing a strong adult man wants to hear is an accusation about 6, 7, 8.... cause reality is, if it's right, that he sees the value in family, love, commitment, and fidelity.... forever... and while the good love will slowly calm down into an ever smoldering romance.... this kind of guy bet his life on you, and you can count on that... even if we like blogging a couple hours a day as opposed to watching every episode of Desperate Housewives with you.... Really.

Ramona June 06, 2011 | 1:44 PM

What do you think?

susie August 13, 2010 | 4:50 PM

@Paul...the woman is no longer intersted in the relationship and does everything to push the man away. So when he cheats, she has the grounds for divorce, and a hefty alimony. I've always wondered why more men don't ask about alienation of affection...she took the same vows, and broke them first.

Paul April 27, 2010 | 6:07 AM

I have just read through this list and I feel the following needs to be said. Why does it seem that people always blame the man for the term cheating? Does the women (wife) play any part in the mans decision. YES YES and Yes. How is a man supposed to constantly love a women that seems to be uninterested in him. How is it she won't find the small things he does as contributory to a relationship? Why does she get to move on instead of working on and with the one they married. Why must she be insulting to him and his ego? When women ask why is he considering another women perhaps they should ask themselves, what am I doing to help him find her? Do you make him feel important, do you love him, do you care about him, is he important, is he boring, are you boring, etc etc. Why are you unhappy? Is he unhappy for the same reason? Not sure why it's so important to identify the guy as the cheater, the label stinks and women just seem to love to push the label. Men are not perfect, but neither are women. Why not try to be his girlfriend instead of a negative part of his life. Men hate the label cheater, but also feel the women pushes them to this extent with there massive and unnecessary unhappiness displays.

Concerned April 06, 2010 | 12:59 PM

What about 10 signs SHE'S cheating on you? Looks like this list can easily apply to both sexes.

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