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What He Wants: Q&A with the guys

Straight talk from the guys

Ladies, this is the ultimate inside look into a guy's mind. We asked our What He Wants guys questions about love, sex, break ups, attraction and dating. We even asked a few down and dirty questions we were dying to hear the answers to.

Q: If you could have any three things in your perfect woman, what would those three things be?

Jason says:

Confidence, intelligence and a drop dead amazing body.

Mike says:
Self-confidence, good looks, and kindness. Big boobs, little waist, and lots of money. No, not lots of money, something else... loves sex. Yeah, what good is big boobs, little waist and they hate sex. That's just a pain in the ass. I'll take a broke chick that likes sex over an uptight, rich chick anytime.

Support, looks and compassion.

Q: What initially attracts you to a woman?

Jason says:
Confidence -- you see that through eye contact. Great legs and a sense of humor... or if she is funny is the next step for me. FYI: A lady being a loud drunk-ass on a pub-crawl is not confidence, but it can lead to a fun time.

Rob says:

One of the first things I notice about a girl is her smile. I love a girl with a nice smile.

Leo says:
I would be lying if I did not say looks. The way I look at a woman is how most men look at women. Face/chest, legs, feet, hips, butt. Don't ask why we look at feet -- we do. Some things that stand out with me are height; I love tall women.

Q: OK, so we all know the fairy tale of meeting someone, feeling instant attraction, and living happily ever after. But have you discovered things are way hotter if you actually hate them a little bit?

Jason says:

The sex is hotter, but that is about it.

Rob says:
Oh, for sure. My past relationship started that way. I would come in late to work, and she made sure everyone knew it. Not until a few months later did we realize that we actually liked each other.

Leo says:
I've found myself having to deal with more pains in the asses if I hate them a little bit. There's nothing wrong about disagreeing, or having different tastes. But if I hate something about you, as in absolutely dislike something to my very core, I'm gone! I cannot put up with that.

Up next: The guys answer some DOWN & DIRTY Questions

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