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What He Wants: Q&A with the guys

Straight talk from the guys

Ladies, this is the ultimate inside look into a guy's mind. We asked our What He Wants guys questions about love, sex, break ups, attraction and dating. We even asked a few down and dirty questions we were dying to hear the answers to.

Q: When it comes to a woman in bed, what do you think: Lingerie or naked?

Jason says:
Lingerie or naked? Naked. A woman's naked body may be one of God's
most beautiful creations.

Mike says:
I always go naked - I never wear lingerie! I can't pull it off, I'm hairy.
It's disgusting.

Corneliu says:
Both. Lingerie leads to naked, so might as well...

Q: How can a woman impress you in bed?

Jason says:
She can know what she wants and communicate that. Nothing is sexier than a woman that knows her body - knowing what will make her legs shake, loose her breath and tingle all over with glowing orgasm.

Q: What do you really want in bed? For women to be the boss or for you to be the boss?

Loren says:
I like to be the leader, you know what I mean? It's a masculine thing
to take charge.

Jason says:
Both. Some days she just needs to be the boss and that is great. And some days he does. And then there are the great days where the sex is a fight for who will be the boss.

Q: If a woman loves her partner but the sex is underwhelming. What should she do?

Mike says:
If you're supportive and say, "Hey, I really love you, I'm really attracted to you, I really want to have sex, I want to have more sex, I want to have great sex, what can I do? How can I help you?" I can't imagine a guy that's not going to get into that.

Loren says:

Just do it together and talk to him about it... don't make him feel like you're putting him on the spot. Just say, "Hey this is what it is, what can we do?"

Corneliu says:
It depends on what's underwhelming about it. She should probably be open to the guy about it and express why she's unsatisfied, and what would satisfy her more. Do it in an environment with him where he doesn't feel attacked. Coach him on what turns you on.

Q: Why are some guys so turned on by the girl-on-girl action?

Mike says:

It's because guys are gross and women are beautiful. Have you seen women?

Loren says:

Women are much more sensual.

Corneliu says:
There's actually something very exotic about women. When you have one exotic woman getting it on with another exotic woman - there's that feeling that some sexiness is going on there, which I don't think you can ever find in guys.

Up next: Breaking up is hard to do... or is it? see what the guys said!

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