Even still, many women struggle with this when they're dating someone new. But instead of figuring out the signs that he doesn't dig you, let's pinpoint the signals that is very much into you. Let's go with the more positive approach. Where do you begin, you ask? Here's a checklist:
If the guy you just met or are currently dating says, "I'll give you a call," and he does, you are in. If he says he'll give you a ring and doesn't, just delete him off your phone or label his number "don't answer."
You might get a call for him days or weeks after he said he was going to, but that only means you're like a back-up friend to hang out with while everyone else is busy. Drop him like a bad habit.
He might be at work or having dinner with a group of friends, but the boy who is into you will text you hello. He might not have anything with substance to say, but he will still contact because he's thinking of you. Now there's a sure sign he digs you.
As obvious as this is, some girls forget this. They resort to asking boys out because they think someone may be too shy or boys just aren't good with planning. The boy who likes you will set aside his dating phobias and come out of his shell, and ask you out. If he's not into you, he'll likely avoid the prospect of a date. Duh.
Even if he's not a major planner, the boy who likes you will become one. He'll think of fun things for you to do and invite you to some great outings. He wants to show you a good time because he wants you to continue hanging out. He doesn't want to disappoint you, so you're in good hands.
It may sound old-fashioned, but the boy who really likes you will make the effort to show you how a gentleman should treat a lady. He'll pick you up, take you out, and at date's end walk you to the door. He won't assume that you'll invite him in, but will be stoked to be in that position. If you don't invite him in -- and on the first date, you probably shouldn't -- he'll walk to your door and give you a sweet, gentle kiss good night. At this point, it'll be obvious, not only does he respect you, he also likes you.
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