5 Things he wants you to say in bed

Sep 12, 2008 10:21 AM by Margeaux Baulch Klein

Posted in Love & Sex / Sex Tips & Seduction Secrets / Sex Tips, Sex Toys & Fun

Dirty Talk

For a man, nothing is sexier than a woman who is loud in bed and participates in a little dirty talk. Below are five things your man is dying to hear you mouth off about.

Him

Men want to know that you're not visualizing someone else when you're with them or just phoning it in, so although it may seem basic, saying (or screaming out) his name in bed is a good way to ease into dirty talk. Punctuate it with a few "ooohs" and moans and it will be more than enough to get him going.

The Action

If you're being a tad quiet, many men will take the initiative and let you know what they'd like to hear by peppering you with questions, such as "What am I doing to you?" and "How does that feel?"
In this case, simply describing the mise en scène and how you feel will suffice. However, don't feel like obligated to use cuss words if it's not your style. Instead, take a cue from romance novels and utilize under-used verbs like "pulse," "swell," and "throb."

Your Fantasies

Nothing counts when it's said in between the sheets, so if you're feeling confident, why not seize the opportunity and tell him all of your craziest fantasies and dreams? If the thought leaves you tongue-tied, try practicing in front of a mirror – especially the particularly naughty parts – until you are able to say them without feeling embarrassed or laughing.

Stock Dirty Phrases

Sometimes just having sex is intimate enough, and the idea of pouring out all of your deepest desires, especially in a new relationship, is too much. However, you don't want to be mute. For those times, any of the following stock sexy phrases will work:
"Oh, yeah, right there!"
"That feels amazing"
"Don't stop, harder"
"I want you so bad"
"Give it to me!"
"You animal!"

Get Creative

Men can be just as insecure as women; so sometimes a little vocal encouragement is all that's needed to let them know that you are enjoying what they're doing. Sometimes a few soft purrs can be just as effective as a well-rehearsed speech, so don't be afraid to get creative. Whatever you do to cheerlead them along will make your bedroom romp all the more exciting.

Comments

Comments on "5 Things he wants you to say in bed"

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I wouldn't mind knowing what that bra is that the woman is wearing, too; seeing a couple posts asking about it but no answers. anyone know, or know one that is similar?

Good advice there! Haley, Great is not about how many men you have been laid by. The best way to improve in bed is to be confident in who you are, where your going in life and except yourself unconditionally. If your 25 year old boyfriend is critical or negative about your reaction it is possible he is just not the man who can push your buttons. Speak your mind say what you want and need. Good physical unions happen when both partners are able to be honest about everything.

My man loves for me too tell him that he is the best and tell him what he does to me that makes me feel so great!

All of these are good tips and another is to make sure and use his name. something about saying their name drives a guy wild.(moaning it is even better)

Some good advice here on what to say in bed. I'll like the idea of dirty talk.

hello, strange question but does anyone know where I could get a bra like the red one the girl is wearing(Dirty Talk page)?

Aside from Shelly, I don't know what the rest of you are talking about down there, but this is good infomation. Really - these are the things that can improve a relationship and keep things exciting. Thanks for the good tips!

Right on! This is an article every woman should keep on her mind - not only will these things enhance intimacy, they will make all the better!