Maintaining a healthy and loving relationship in this day and age is harder most people imagine. One of the most important factors in having a successful relationship is to be able to have an open communication system. Make sure you are able to talk about five of these pressing relationship issues and you can work through any problem.
Asking for more foreplay
Sex brings a couple closer and as time goes on, it can become a little routine, especially if you're married or have lived together for a long time. Spending more time on foreplay builds up the suspense and creates more love between the two of you. If your lover has gotten into the habit of 'quickies', stop him in his tracks and ask him to slow down for a more sensual sexual experience.
Trying something new in the bedroom
Long-term couples have to use their imaginations to get the creative juices flowing. A truly comfortable couple can ask each other to try a new sexual position or a sex toy to amp things up, without feeling embarrassed. It might be a little awkward asking to do something uncoventional to your sex life for the first time but once you get the ball rolling, soon neither of you will bat an eyelash at the wierdest requests!