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How to flirt with text messaging

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Tips to text it to him dirty, baby

If you're like most girls, the idea of sending your lover a sexy text can be quite exciting. It also doesn't hurt knowing that the little ding of the cell phone text could alert your lover while he's in a meeting, in class, or in line somewhere. No matter where he is, he can get your message -- loud and clear.

How to flirt with text messaging

There are so many benefits to sending sweet or naughty text messages. For starters, they are a great way to keep the spice in your relationship and serve as a thoughtful reminder when received unexpectedly. If you want to let your man know what you're thinking but have a hard time saying it, the text will do it for you!

Likewise, if you've just started dating and you're ready to move your relationship to that next level, a flirty text will certainly have him intrigued and wanting more. But the best reason to send them is that they are safe and fun.

Sending a sexy text can be fun and flirty and can share good insight as to how your partner responds to verbal affection. Also, it can serve as a way to keep things heated up between you two until the next time you see eachother in person.

How to sexy text

Depending on what type of phone you have, you may run into the issue of having limited characters to say what you want over a text.

But you don't have to over-complicate things -- when it comes to texting, less is more. You're not writing a novel, but just delivering a fun, sexy hello. Check out these 10 ideas below for short abbreviated texts that definitely get the message across!

10 Sexy text message ideas

  1. You look hot today
  2. Hey baby
  3. I want to touch you
  4. Wanna come play?
  5. Thinking bout you right now
  6. What are you wearing?
  7. Can't wait to see you
  8. Thanks for last night ;)
  9. Guess what I'm wearing
  10. You are so sexy

Long distance relationship flirty text ideas

If you and your special someone have found yourselves in a long distance relationship, here are a few sexy text message ideas to send.

  • Even though we are apart, my love you will never part.
  • Hand in hand and heart to heart my love for you shall never part.
  • 1000 miles away and you are still right here in my heart
  • I'd walk a thousand miles to touch you tonight
  • I can't wait to be in your arms again
  • Can't get you out of my head
  • The best is yet to come
  • My dream come true would be waking up next to you
  • Being away from you is the hardest thing I've ever had to do

Read more: Long distance relationship text message ideas >>

Romantic text Ideas

If you're a romantic at heart and just want to send the occasional text to remind you're loved one that he or she is on your mind, try one of these heart-warming romantic text message ideas.

  • In case you didn't know, I'll be loving you always and forever!
  • Loving you has been the best thing to ever happen to me!
  • Your love is all I'll ever need.
  • You are the center of my world. And for that, I am thankful each day.
  • Even though we are apart, my love you will never part.
  • You are on my mind now and always.
  • I love you more with each passing day.

Up next: More flirty text message inspirations >>

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