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How to flirt with text messaging

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Text it to me dirty, baby

If you're like most girls, the idea of sending your lover a sexy text can be quite exciting. It also doesn't hurt knowing that the little ding of the cell phone text could alert your lover while he's in a meeting, in class, or in line somewhere. No matter where he is, he can get your message -- loud and clear.

Woman flirting over text message

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How to flirt with text messaging

There are so many benefits to sending sweet or naughty text messages. For starters, they are a great way to keep the spice in your relationship and serve as a thoughtful reminder when received unexpectedly. If you want to let your man know what you're thinking but have a hard time saying it, the text will do it for you!

Likewise, if you've just started dating and you're ready to move your relationship to that next level, a flirty text will certainly have him intrigued and wanting more. But the best reason to send them is that they are safe and fun.

Sending a sexy text can be fun and flirty and can share good insight as to how your partner responds to verbal affection. Also, it can serve as a way to keep things heated up between you two until the next time you see eachother in person.

How 2 sxy text

Depending on what type of phone you have, you may run into the issue of having limited characters to say what you want over a text.

But you don't have to over-complicate things -- when it comes to texting, less is more. You're not writing a novel, but just delivering a fun, sexy hello. Check out these 10 ideas below for short abbreviated texts that definitely get the message across!

10 Sexy text message ideas

  1. u look hot 2day
  2. hey baby
  3. i want to touch u
  4. wanna come play?
  5. thinking bout u right now
  6. what r u wearing?
  7. cnt wait 2 c u
  8. thx 4 lst nite
  9. guess what im wearing
  10. u r so sxy

Long distance relationship flirty text ideas

If you and your special someone have found yourselves in a long distance relationship, here are a few sexy text message ideas to send.

  • Even though we are apart, my love you will never part.
  • Hand in hand and heart to heart my love for you shall never part.
  • 1000 miles away and you are still right here in my heart
  • I'd walk a thousand miles to touch you tonight
  • I can't wait to be in your arms again
  • Can't get you out of my head
  • The best is yet to come
  • My dream come true would be waking up next to you
  • Being away from you is the hardest thing I've ever had to do

Get more LDR text message ideas >>

Romantic text Ideas

If you're a romantic at heart and just want to send the occasional text to remind you're loved one that he or she is on your mind, try one of these heart-warming romantic text message ideas.

  • In case you didn't know, I'll be loving you always and forever!
  • Loving you has been the best thing to ever happen to me!
  • Your love is all I'll ever need.
  • You are the center of my world. And for that, I am thankful each day.
  • Even though we are apart, my love you will never part.
  • You are on my mind now and always.
  • I love you more with each passing day.

Up next: More flirty text message inspirations >>

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