Making Love

It's always a good idea to sneak over to the "other side" and get a guy's opinion on what sex moves make sex unforgettable. (As in, he's still thinking about it an hour, a week, a year later!) We rounded up a few opinions from real men around the web to give you a naughty idea or two for tonight.

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What sex moves guys loved

In a classic Cosmopolitan story, one strategic move cemented itself as mind-blowing in one guy's mind:  "She went down on me, naked, with a mirror placed behind her."

Grabbing a mirror is easy, inexpensive, and if you know your man likes pornography and you'd rather be the girl in the movie than watch a skin flick with him, then this is the way to go. With a floor-length mirror behind you, he'll see everything — and we mean everything! — you're doing, just like in the movies, except way better, because he's watching himself. For men, sex doesn't get much better than that!

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Another real-life guy from the Cosmo piece said while he kissed his girlfriend, she'd reach down and masturbate. Talk about an ego boost for him. If he's kissing you and it's so pleasurable that you can't control yourself (or your hands), now that's a vote of confidence.

43 percent of people named doggy style as their favorite position.

You don't even have to go crazy to give your guy something to think about. Instead, try letting go and going with the flow. At, one commenter said he loves a woman who enjoys herself: "I love when a girl rides me, just being able to watch her body move and her hair flow as she looks into my eyes while moaning drives me crazy."

And one more from the Cosmopolitan story: "Si" said one of his favorite moments in the sack was when his partner gave commentary on an imaginary threesome they were having with another woman. That's one way to have a threesome experience without actually going through with it.

And if you're looking for a quick fix for memorable sex ASAP, our very own Sexcerpts blog reported that, according to a poll, 43 percent of people in a mostly-male poll named doggy style as their favorite position. Blow his mind by switching positions mid-missionary to give him a rear view.

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Tell us

If there are any men reading, what do these sex move suggestions do for you? What has your wife, girlfriend or past sexual partner done to "wow" you in such a way that you'll never forget? Tell us about it below!

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Comments on "The sex moves he will always remember"

daniele October 29, 2013 | 4:44 PM

365 Thrill Positions - Tips and Tricks 2013 check here : http://365thrillspositions.blogspot i like your positions also and i will try with my girlfriend , great article !

jack July 12, 2013 | 6:50 AM

Watching my partner get off is always the biggest turn-on. Masturbation, woman-on-top, vibrators, oral , dirty talk, all with her pleasure in mind and therefore mine too. Her orgasms are "better" than mine. Awesome!

Lauren December 05, 2012 | 11:48 AM

Great read! I think it's important to be confident. Doesn't really matter what you're doing, but if you're confident in it your guy will find you y.

Hmmmm June 02, 2012 | 7:58 PM

On the whole porn thing, I don't see why it's that bad. Every once in awhile, me and my boyfriend want to get in the mood, so we watch together. We both acknowledge that our eyes are less on each other and more on the man/woman (in my case both), and we honestly don't care, because there's no emotional connection to either actors, ever, and we are not making love to them. Neither do we have an interest in doing so. The romance we have afterwards is always intense and passionate, and better than anything we could have had with the pornstars. So ladies, if you watch porn yourself, keep in mind he doesn't want a night with the pornstar when he watches, most of the time, he wants a night with you but one of you is not in the mood yet. Yet. ;)

Amy May 04, 2012 | 1:12 PM

My husband made super Memorable by having with me once in 45 years. I'm sure everyone will say hes into porn or , well I can say that he's not either one. We live in the same house I have the upstairs and he the down stairs. I should have left him but I was young and stupid, and thought things would turn around. He is a very lonely person no TV, computer,telephone hasn't any friends that I know of, goes no where. We haven't talked in years other than a primitive grunt once in awhile.

MIMI August 01, 2011 | 5:05 AM

ooh yeah..on the third date with him,i drank a lot n him too that we could not control our self..that we kiss n kiss in public that we did not relies it..i lot control totally that on our way back home we stop at an enclose place where i sit on a table n he stood in between ma legs all i knew was we were kissing n we end up having n that was the first with him..we still together for three years now..i do feel bad for our first to be this way n want to know if he thinks about it

Elixir February 19, 2011 | 10:50 PM

Hey there, emo-girl, look, I know this may sound patronizing, but honestly I don't mean it that way. You are definately beautiful, and sooner or later some guy will notice that about you and will love you. You don't state how old you are, but I'm guessing you are fairly young, so it may feel like it's taking forever. You have to trust me in this, you'll find someone who will love you for who you are, it is bound to happen. You may have to kiss a few frogs first, and not all of 'em are going to be princes, either. But believe in yourself. You shouldn't be relying on another person's view of you to gain self-esteem. It simply doesn't work that way. If you are confident and comfortable in your own skin, that, believe me, will be the most beautiful thing you can be, and guys /will/ notice, trust me. As in all things, patience and trust. Best wishes for you. E.

Taken January 31, 2011 | 12:05 PM

Guys, I just have to say. To all of those that do like to watch porn and have with your girl at the same time, that's ok! UNLESS your eyes are completely on the chick in the video, and not on your woman. That's makes us girls feel that you aren't really with US, you're with the chick in the video. All guys are different. This I know. But really! Like JOHN! You really are an ass hole! I just have to say that. If that's how you really feel, NEVER say that to her. And I agree with Joe. You should just let her go. If you can really say that about her, you don't deserve her. Sorry. Like I said though! My ex, he used to watch porn CONSTANTLY. Wouldn't have with me unless he was watching it. And I'm not ugly. Nowhere near it. He wouldn't even look at me, he was looking at that "new face" he seen on our computer screen. If porn helps you to get off, if it excites you, go ahead! But keep your attention on your woman. Make her enjoy it and want to watch it with you again! I'd have been fine with it, hell it gets me off too, but not when my guy isn't really in the room??????

Elixir January 30, 2011 | 11:09 PM

Ummm, I just /have/ to make a comment here. This is one of the things I strongly believe it's not for a man to understand how he is affecting a woman by watching porno. It is, and must be for the woman to understand why she is jealous of a movie or a picture. No man intends to cause his partner hurt feelings by watching porno, simply that for him (and this is only about guys who watch porn and get off on it, so it's NOT about every man, I'm not meaning to overgeneralise here!!) However it is something that appears to be a simple easy way for men to become aroused, and also involves less direct emotional involvement - but this is exactly why woman should not be jealous of it!!! Before you consider him to be cheating, keep this in mind: He is with YOU. He has chosen to remain partnered to you, and wants only to make his emotional connection WITH YOU! Hopefully, he is not making you watch anything you don't want to, although he may wish to be able to share with YOU his arousal. If you can, at least tolerate this in him, if you cannot or will not share in it. But remember there are also two parts to sharing. Maybe he might prefer if you choose the kind of porn to watch. It /can/ be an opprtunity to enter into deeper sensuality. As someone who personally likes and watches porn (strictly consensual and non-violent) I would much prefer being able to share that with a prospective partner, but as I have said elsewhere, would never insist that the partner watch anything they found either distasteful or distressing. I believe strongly that openness is the main point, so I would insist on mentioning that I do to my partner, rather than keep it from them. as with everything, YMMV. Good luck, however, and may I repeat! I am mainly describing my personal perspective on these matters, not either advocating, nor am I speaking for all cases or situations. Standard caveats apply! Elixir

shiang January 28, 2011 | 9:35 AM

how nice reading ur stories...i have an experience...ill never forget my girlfriend! becouse we like each other having ...who's like ! ^^

Marie January 18, 2011 | 6:07 PM

Nicki I totally understand what you are going through. I also have a bf who watches porno all the time. We have often and I also really get the job done. But it doesn't matter how earth shattering it was, he'll still continue to watch porno. It hurts like hell to see him looking at other women in the way that he should be looking at me. Its the same way that I would feel if I came in the house and found him having with another woman in front of me. Men can't understand that they hurt us with it. Would they like it if we were to try and get them interested in uncomfortable things? I wish they could understand....

alishah January 14, 2011 | 12:06 PM

keep it up

Kevin December 30, 2010 | 5:06 AM

one of my x's liked to wake up before me, cook me breakfast in her bra and thong, then go down on me while i ate it. it sucks when you get use to that and lose it.

lele December 21, 2010 | 6:24 AM

Thanks joe w was really confused but u really helped me, ive been in a 4 year relationship and now we've been married for 2 years and is great but sometimes i kinda loose control of my self and sometimes scared that im not good enough for him anymore, i try as hard as i can but he always says that he loves me and he doesnt want me to change one bit..

Joe December 09, 2010 | 2:41 PM

John, you're an idiot.. If you think men are like that, I feel sorry for your girlfriend. She shouldn't have to change her looks just for you to stay interested in her. If you are losing interest, I think it's time to call it quits and stop dragging her along, let her date someone that will find her attractive no matter if it's one year or ten years. I would never want my woman to dye or change her looks just to please me. You're not a real man my friend.

Foxxy December 01, 2010 | 11:21 PM

My best experience was when my boyfriend and I were at the county fair. He was working there that night and had to shut the ferris wheel down. Everybody was gone and we started kissing. Soon we started haveing ON THE FERRIS WHEEL! We almost were seen by a worker.... but man! What a thrill! I will never forget that! And he didn't hesitate to talk dirty:) it was flat out amazing.

Alquin September 02, 2010 | 8:55 AM

I like the guy!

nicki July 03, 2010 | 3:40 PM

ugh ive been in a comitted relationship with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and i cant stand him watching porn.. i know im amazing in bed and im always satisfying.. i get hurt wen i catch him on websites looking at multiple videos of girls.. i try my hardest to look my best im always switching up my hair and i look even better than wen we started dating.. what can i do to make him be satisfied with only me.. ive tried the mirror thing.. ive done it all.. im not comfortable with threesomes or porn.. maybe if at the beginning he would have shared id be better with it now..but now it simply hurts my feelings.. any help?

john June 08, 2010 | 9:15 AM

u guys r (xept mike) here a fun fact, we guys like diversity, its gonna sound weird but u know why we watch so much porn? cause we dont get tired fo watching new girl´s faces getting stripped, im in a commited relationship, 1.6 years now but a few weeks agop i started 2 "get bored of my girlfriend", i love her and we got great life but when i see any other woman i cant help 2 imagine what would it be like 2 be with her, so girls: try 2 change your look every once in a while, cut ur hair (its like having a new GF) get it blonde if ur brunnete and viceversa, role playing also helps keeping ur man after a while...

honez February 12, 2010 | 10:54 PM

cool and lovely to read.Think i`ll put some to practise and have a first hand experience.

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