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Sex tips to remember if his member is too big or too small

Deborah Cruz is a SheKnows parenting expert and blogger at The TRUTH About Motherhood, which she calls a place of "humor, support, honesty and integrity." Follow her on Facebook and Twitter.

For as long as men have existed, they have been concerned about the size of their penis. And for equally as long, women haven't really cared.

To be honest, it really isn't that big of a deal. We've all dated guys who have underachieving penises and have been a little scared of how that would affect the relationship especially if it was a micro penis.

Many of us have had been with men who've been "well endowed" and we know that sometimes that can feel like the police are trying to beat down your cervix with a battering ram. Then there are the men who are hung like horses, 13-inch penis? No thank you, sir.

First, a little pertinent information, the normal size penis is 3-6 inches when fully erect, with the average being around 5.5 inches, so if your man falls into that range he is perfectly normal. Did you know it only takes about 3 inches to "fill" a woman and most nerve endings are within the first inch?

So maybe your guy has a micro penis or maybe he is large and in charge; it doesn't matter. I'm here to tell you that with a few tips you can have amazing sex with your partner no matter what size his penis is.

Foreplay

Whether your partner has a huge penis or a tiny one, foreplay is the key to unlocking your big O! Either way, have lots of foreplay. If he's tiny, a few key foreplay moves will make you not even notice. An eager lover skilled in the use of his fingers and mouth will make you forget all about what he may be "lacking" down below. Most orgasms happen before the penis ever comes into play anyway.

If your lover has a little more than you're used to down below, a good amount of foreplay will get those juices flowing and make penetration easier. Believe me, you want lubricant. If your lover is not one to like to spend a lot of time with "formalities," make it a game. Propose a game or tie him up, so that you are in charge of when penetration happens. Tease him; he'll be willing to ravish you the minute he's free.

Cock rings

I don't recommend cock rings if your partner is large in girth, but if you feel like you could use a little more "width" it will offer you a more full feeling. You can both have a lot of fun putting it on and it will help him maintain his erection longer and harder. If you really want to up the pleasure factor, try a vibrating cock ring.

Positions

If your partner has a small penis, you may want to guide him to use positions that allow for deeper penetration like the hound. Lower yourself onto your forearms and really push back into your partner as he enters you from behind or the Sphinx. Lie on your stomach with your weight on your forearms with one leg outstretched behind and the other bent out to the side. Your partner will then be slightly on top of you, weight on his arms, entering you from behind. The pressure of his body on your pelvis creates extra pleasure for you while enabling him to penetrate you more deeply.

Or try a favorite position for all sizes, reverse cowgirl. Have your partner lay on his back as you sit on top of him, facing the opposite direction.

For the guy with the above-average member, try the galley position. Get your partner to sit with his weight on his right arm and his legs out in front of him. Sit astride him, with your back facing him as your lean forward. You'll be in total control, as well as being perfectly placed to get some extra attention to your clitoris.

The simple truth of the matter is that the size of a man's penis doesn't have to affect the quality of his lovemaking. With these three tips, you'll never have to worry that his penis won't be fulfilling ever again.

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