Is the practice of monogamy — having a sexual relationship with only one partner at a time — becoming antiquated? It seems like every time we turn around, another celebrity or public figure is admitting to or being accused of having a sexual affair. And what about those in your personal circle? Do you know someone who has or would like to have more than one regular sexual partner? Is that someone you?
If that someone is you, you're certainly not alone. It takes only a quick perusal on the internet to find numerous chat rooms, discreet dating sites and alternative lifestyle options that are geared toward and often promote online or real sexual hook-ups, so it's easy to see that the market for non-monogamous relationships is there. And while monogamy is the traditional choice for a committed relationship, what it really comes down to is what's right for you, as you are the responsible for your own life.
Be honest with yourself first. When you're in a relationship and wondering whether monogamy is for you, ask yourself questions such as these:
Make sure to keep an honest and open line of communication with your partner or partners. A breakdown in communication can quickly make almost any relationship fizzle, whether it's romantic or purely sexual. So be fair to your partner, and be clear about who you are and what you want in regards to sex and monogamy — inside and out of the relationship.
A couple can make a non-monogamous relationship work if both parties are accepting of the lifestyle choice. There are many levels of "non-monogamy," from taking a regular lover to swinging or adding a third or fourth person to the bedroom. Switching from a monogamous relationship to an "open" relationship may mean a compromise might need to reached or certain ground rules might need to be established, but what happens in the bedroom is ultimately up to you — and your sexual partner or partners.
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