Awkward silences are awkward for a reason, so if you find it's way too quiet in the bedroom, then spice up your sex life with a little dirty talk. If you've never tried it before, experiment with different tones and words or be expressive and complimentary about what you like (instead of tossing out naughty vocabulary). "I love when you touch me here," or "It feels great when you do..." are good phrases for dirty-talk newbies.
Unfortunately, men can't read minds. If you know what makes your toes curl and what makes you forget your own name, then tell the man your with. He'll love to know what pushes your buttons.
Remember the first time you kissed or spent the night over at your honey's? Just because you've been together for awhile, doesn't mean the fun has to stop. Sometimes the best sex can come from enjoying the intimacy you share with your long-time partner.
"The way you dress can drastically affect your mood," according to Hunt and Baritchi, so improve your confidence by dressing in clothes that make you feel great. If you feel good on the outside, those feelings will translate to how you feel on the inside. So have a closet-cleaning party. If you don't love the way you look in something, ditch it!
The more sex you have, especially sex ending in orgasm, the more endorphins are released into your body. Endorphins are neurotransmitters that reduce pain, increase pleasure and give a person an overall happy feeling. So the more sex you have, the more feel-good chemicals will be released into your body and, as a result, you'll want more sex overall.
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