Dr. John Demartini is a leading authority in human behavior and leadership development.
We all want true love, whether we're aware of it or not. However, when we're in a relationship, we often think the other person is supposed to be like us; but if any two people are exactly the same, one of them is unnecessary. Each person has his or her own unique set of values and no two people have the same set. Each person expresses love through his or her own values. How do you identify your and your partner's values? Ask yourself the following questions. Make sure your answers are what your life truly demonstrates.
Have a look at what you have in your office or in your home and see what you display in your most valued space.
We always allocate time for things that are important to us, so our days are divided up with our priorities. If something is not important we keep putting it off until tomorrow.
You always have energy for things that inspire you. Have a look at where you feel most vital and enthused in your day-to-day activities.
You will feel reluctant to spend money on things you perceive as unimportant. If something means something to you, you will always figure a way to pay for it.
Everyone has areas of order and areas of disorder in their lives. The things that are important to you, you will spend time organizing.
If something is important to you, you will be dedicated to doing it.
Your mind will always focus on the things that mean something to you. You may be distracted by a phone call or a television program but your mind will constantly wander back to the area of highest importance.
What you envision and dream about will be in alignment with what is important to you.
We all speak to ourselves and we dialogue internally about what is most important to us.
Every person wants to communicate what is most important to him. If someone discusses something we don't want to hear, we will try to change the conversation to what is important to us.
We are inspired by the areas of life that mean something to us, so if we value children, then we will be inspired by what children do. If we value business then we will be inspired by achievements in business.
We will be willing to stretch towards goals that have meaning for us.
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