While it's normal to have ups and downs in your relationship, to no longer feel attracted to your partner is a sign of trouble. Whether it's his attitude or lack of motivation making him less attractive or the fact that he no longer takes care of himself physically, there are things you can do to get your relationship back on track. We spoke with real women who have been there, done that and are providing some tips on regaining the spark and feeling that attraction once again.
When I was pregnant, my husband gained weight right along with me. Nine months later, I lost all the weight and he didn't. Physically, I was no longer attracted to him and having a hard time wanting to be intimate. Instead of hassling him to lose weight, I decided to focus on his good features. My husband has beautiful eyes, a wonderful smile and, most importantly, a kind heart. He's also a wonderful father, which makes him incredibly attractive in my eyes. — Lisa
My husband and I were both overweight and decided to lose weight together. It was actually after we lost weight that I realized I was no longer attracted to him. I realized that other than being in shape, he was lazy. He didn't pay bills, do chores or have any personal interests of his own. We recently filed for divorce. — Krystal
Lack of attraction is a major cause of divorce in the U.S., typically because it leads to a sexless marriage. In order to regain that attraction and desire you once had for your spouse, we recommend the following tips:
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