Light The Spark
We're all about setting the mood. This kit contains an organic Madagascar vanilla candle that melts into a decadent massage oil, an all-natural personal lubricant, a discreet lipstick vibrator, a luxurious tickling feather and a trademarked pleasure menu. The playful pleasure menu will help dictate exactly what you want to focus on with your partner.
The kit is both fun and naughty without the sleaze factor. (And it's no secret that a healthy sex life is all around great for your well-being!) It's available for $50 at Light the Spark's online store, datenightplan.com.
That time of the month...
Takes on a whole new (super fun) meaning when you gift the panties of the month club!
Ditsies.com is a panty membership club — luxury panties sent to you monthly for just $12/month. Maybe a clever gift for what to buy your manly man. Or, if you have a friend who shares your love for lacy underthings, it's a great gift for them as well. Even better, 10 percent of profits are sent to a charity partner you choose: either Somaly Mam, entrepreneurship skills for formerly exploited women, or the Breast Cancer Research Fund, on behalf of the creator's sister, Louise.
Create a (naughty) page turner
For a stocking stuffer idea, what about creating your own voyeuristic or boudoir photo book for your significant other? Blurb, a global publishing platform, publishes rich, full-color and professional grade books that look great on the coffee table or hidden in the "goodie drawer" when you want some voyeuristic titillation.
Books start at $4 a copy and you can do anything from artistic to sweet with the actual design!
Little black... (jewelry organizer)
Umbra's Little Black Corset is the sexiest jewelry organizer out there or in your closet (and now is available in pink as well!):
The way to a man's heart is through his stomach
As in Simple Sexy Food. Cooking is a lot more motivating when it's from an aphrodisiac cookbook packed with exclusive recipes, food and sex tips, descriptions and histories of ingredients and even survey data about what food people find sexy. And it's the only aphrodisiac cookbook written by a clinical sex therapist who also happens to be a foodie!
Go for a workout
A special kind, that is. Shiri Zinn Kegel Balls have gotten a lot of attention thanks to Fifty Shades of Grey. Take things up a notch with luxurious glass Kegel balls from Shiri Zinn that are used to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. Each of these Kegel balls has a different weight. Start with the smallest weight and then work your way up. They can even be worn throughout the day! Not only do they exercise your pelvic floor, but they also provide pleasurable sensations at the same time.
Luz de la Riva Camille Blindfold
Are you looking for a sexy blindfold that is not only fashionable but luxurious? The Luz de la Riva Camille blindfold is a 100 percent silk blindfold adorned with Swarovski crystals. This blindfold can also be worn as a headband or even a belt.
Something sexy (and a bit adorable) under the mistletoe
We KNOW you are looking at this and thinking lumberjack honeymoon wear — but it's so much more than that. It's so... Mrs. Claus gets kinky. We need (and by "we," I clearly mean "me") this Steven Alan Ruffle Panty ($38). For naughtier fun: Invest in a nice wide peek-a-boo skirt!
For the ULTIMATE Fantasy Gift: LELO Inez Gold Vibrator
Momma always said to choose a guy that treats you like gold. This is surely what she meant: The LELO Inez is the world's most exclusive vibrator that not only belongs in your bedroom but in your safe! Crafted out of 24K gold plate, LELO Inez is rechargeable and has five vibration modes. And, at its not too shabby $15,000 price tag? Surely the most expensive date, ever.
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