Read erotic stories. Listen to songs that turn you on. Watch some naughty videos. Lie back and let your body relax. Practice uttering dirty words. You might even want to masturbate while you practice talking dirty. Experiment with making erotic sound. Talking dirty isn't just about saying words, it's the sounds you make and the tone of your voice that really make a guy go crazy.
You might already do this anyway. It just comes naturally, doesn't it? View talking dirty the same way. All you need to do is be a little more vocal in bed. Take it slowly. Just go out of your comfort zone a tiny bit every time you have sex. As long as you practice, you won't find it to be very difficult.
Some things might be so dirty to you that you might not ever feel comfortable saying them. Instead, use code words. For instance, you could say "I want you to do my favorite thing!" when you want him to go down on you. Or "Now, it's my turn" When you want to do oral on him.
Ask him in a seductive voice what he would like to do. It'll be easier for you to talk dirty when he's doing it too. When both of you are open about what turns you on, the overall experience is enhanced. Sex will become more exciting and enjoyable!
Ok, now that you know how to get started, here are some examples of what you could say.
It doesn't sound that hard, does it? Of course, you don't have to say these examples, word for word. Get a little frisky and try coming up with your own phrases!
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