Happy friends travelling together

While traveling solo or as a couple is great, there's nothing quite like hitting the road or taking to the skies with a good friend. Despite the excitement, going on vacation with a friend has its moments of frustration.

Let's all get just
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In order to ensure you have the best time possible, we put together some simple but effective tips for traveling with a friend — without fighting.

Be willing to compromise

Not every set of friends will like doing exactly the same things all the time (that would be weird). There will be things that you want to do that she doesn't and vice versa. If you really want this trip to work out, you're going to have to be willing to compromise at certain points. If she's been in every souvenir shop, craft market and megamall for you, you can hit every art gallery and museum for her — there needs to be a balance.


If you have something to say, say it. The more you hold something in — the fact she keeps you up every night on Skype with her boyfriend, how you think she should be paying more for your shared hotel rooms — the more resentful you're going to become. We're not suggesting you get confrontational, but good, honest communication will save you both a lot of frustration and make the trip that much more enjoyable.

Plan ahead

Not every detail needs to be planned out (it's a good idea to leave room for some spontaneity), but if you talk about what you'd both like to do before you go, there's less chance someone ends up disappointed. Before you go, each jot down your top five must-dos on the trip or at least what you hope to get out of the trip (relaxation, adventure, etc.). Once you both know what's important to the other, you can work out a plan that encompasses some of what you both want.

Play fair

It can be easy to get selfish on a trip, especially a short trip. If you only have one week, you're going to want to pack in as much of what you want to do as possible. This is understandable, but there are two of you. The key to the vacation going smoothly (and the two of you still being friends later) is to be fair and know that for every activity or restaurant that she picks, you can pick one tomorrow.

Don't bring baggage


You'll obviously have luggage, but we're referring to emotional baggage. If you have lingering resentments about your friend (she was late for your last four dinner parties, she flirted with a guy you liked last New Year's Eve), don't bring them on the trip. If there's anything pressing to clear up between the two of you, do it before you get on the plane or in the car. The last thing you need is to let yourself get worked up over something in the past and have it ruin your trip.

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Comments on "How to travel with a friend -- and not fight"

GuestQuest Vacations July 03, 2012 | 5:15 AM

Excellent points about 'how to travel with a friend.' It's important to set ground rules before you leave. No whining and complaining, communication is a must (no pouting), and traveling with an open mind is mandatory. Travel is supposed to be fun. But give and take is important too. It's not all about you. Your travel buddy's input is important too.

Tina June 20, 2012 | 10:37 AM

These are all excellent tips! I traveled with one of my best friends when studying abroad and after 6 weeks away, we were both exhausted and it was easy to get frustrated with each other. Compromise is definitely a very important step! Once I got to do something I really wanted to do, I let her pick our next activity, even if it wasn't especially appealing to me. Planning ahead, especially learning maps and public transportation in wherever you are going is VITAL.

Kris June 14, 2012 | 8:56 AM

Some good tips in this article on traveling with friends! I often travel with my siblings which can sometimes have its frustrating moments. Although my siblings and I are in our thirties, after spending several days together we often begin to revert back to our teenage behavior after a while. Suddenly feeling like a teenager again brings back all those frustrating youthful feelings that made me yearn for the day when I would grow up and get as far away from my siblings as possible. Travelling with siblings can be a good way to bond and keep familial relationships strong, but it can also prove to be exasperating as heck!

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