Teens And Technology

I am constantly amazed by how easily kids can handle today's digital technology. They seem to have an intuitive grasp of how everything works, as well as how to find their way around the web.

Tweens looking at cell phone

Even my 10-year-old daughter and her friends can pick up an unfamiliar cell phone or digital camera and in seconds be taking pictures and shooting video. Give them an iPhone and, if you're not careful with your passwords, you will soon find yourself the proud owner of the latest Miley Cyrus video or that must-have app that's the talk of the school playground!



I was reminded of this when I read about another sexting story, this time out of Pennsylvania. A teenage boy is facing child pornography charges after sharing nude pictures and videos with classmates via his cell phone.


I am not a big believer in treating these cases as child pornography. Surely child pornography laws are there to protect children from the malicious or salacious intent of adults.


With sexting, we are mostly talking about teen girls sending flirtatious pictures to hormone-crazed wannabe boyfriends. Stupid, yes, reckless, certainly… but criminal behavior resulting in a lifelong classification as a sex-offender? I don't think so.



The real problem here is that the digital revolution has unleashed a wave of camera-equipped, web-enabled gadgets on a generation that isn't emotionally ready for them. Photo-sharing technology and the Internet mean that there is no longer any margin for error when it comes to the usual pranks associated with adolescence.


Can most parents honestly say that if cell phone cameras were available during their teen years that they themselves wouldn't have been tempted to do a little experimenting? Kids are still doing the same crazy stuff that we all did growing up –- except now cell phones and web cams are there to record it every step of the way.



They may be a lot more tech-savvy than we were at that age, but that doesn't mean they're any less impulsive or foolish. And bad judgment with a cell phone can have long-lasting consequences.


So before you equip your child with the tools to broadcast themselves –- or others -- to the entire world, ask yourself whether he or she is ready for such a responsibility.


It's no longer a question of whether our children are old enough to own certain digital gadgets; it's whether they are mature enough.



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Comments on "Tech-savvy or teen foolish?"

Priscilla Ramos June 10, 2013 | 9:21 AM

ting is a common problem in many young adults. Like the article states, I do not think that it is something that should be investigated by the authorities unless it poses a threat or dangers to others.

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Katrina May 21, 2012 | 12:50 PM

I tell my kids that every email they write, every text and picture they send, every blog and social media account they ever have, and every online profile they create will be stored forever in a server somewhere. Therefore, anything regrettable that they post or send can potentially come back to haunt them at a later date. I tell my kids that electronic proof of past indiscretions will carry greater weight in the future as society relies more heavily on technology with each passing year. I think I got through to my kids by saying this, because so far none of them have been accused of online bullying or ting.

Jennifer May 21, 2012 | 12:26 PM

As the Internet grows and evolves, I think we are all starting to take online accountability more seriously. When the web was in its infancy, I think many of us would write and publish silly things thinking that it wouldn't follow us. But as the internet becomes increasingly intertwined with our professional and social lives, the need to treat the web like a public space is taking on more importantance. Teens more than anybody need to be reminded that what they write and post online has real-world consequences.

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