There's nothing wrong with confidence. In fact, many women are under confident — and that is impacting their success in the workplace.
Deep inside, you know you have valuable ideas to share, and you deserve credit for your ideas. How many times have you sat in a team meeting and thought, I knew that or I could have said that? Do you feel underpaid and deserving of greater challenges? You can take control of these situations and perhaps with a dose of confidence, you will! The following are a few things you can do to increase your self-confidence.
Do a bit of homework to find a credentialed and experienced career coach or counselor. If you can’t afford private coaching, inquire about group workshops or conferences. Some coaches have special workshops or programs in which you can interact with other women working on confidence and assertiveness. Life is a journey, and we can’t expect to change overnight. However, with self-awareness, guidance and support, you can make personal improvements.
Reading how other women have overcome issues of self-doubt can inspire you to try new strategies and develop new skills. These are four favorite books that many have found interesting and helpful.
One of the best ways to build confidence is by accomplishing a goal. When you earn a degree, gain a new skill or achieve a promotion, it feels great. You know how diligently you worked, how steadfast you were and the challenges you faced. The greater the effort, the better you will feel. That taste of success reinforces in your mind that you are talented and capable.
If you tend to lunch with the office version of Eeyore, you are unlikely to burst back in the office like you can conquer the world. If you spend time with the perennially sad, the victims who “never catch a break” and those who remind you of your shortcomings, your confidence may drop. Seek people with a “we can do this” attitude.
There is an expression, “fake it 'til you make it.” This means that until you have high confidence, act like you do. When you exhibit confidence, others will treat you differently. You might even test your wings and learn you can fly. As you experience positive outcomes, your inner feelings of confidence may develop.
Confidence comes from within. Only you can take control of your life and change your attitude and self-esteem. Approach each day with a positive mood and forthright manner. If you work to build your self-assurance and confidence, you will have faith that you are a worthy person with the talents and background to pursue new challenges and achieve new levels of success.
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