Life is crazy. Life with kids and work is crazier. When your life seems to be closing in around you, you need your mom cave to be the place where you can truly chill out and put your worries behind you. Scents can invoke a number of powerful emotions, and stocking up on the fragrances that calm or energize you can help you achieve the mental state you desire while in your mom cave. Strategically place candles, incense or essential oils in your mom cave for easy access when you need them.
While some women will want a mom cave that enables them to escape every type of work, other women simply don't enjoy sitting back and doing nothing. Don't think of your mom cave as a "work free" zone; rather, think of it as a spot where you can work on your favorite projects or do those tasks that require uninterrupted concentration. For instance, if you enjoy writing in your journal or doing crafts, set up a spot in your mom cave to perform these tasks.
The rest of your house may look like a tornado went through it, but when you enter your mom cave you should enter the eye of the storm -- completely calm and clutter-free. Invest in organizational tools like bookcases, a small desk with drawers and a storage ottoman to help you keep it clean. You get bonus points if you can convince your husband to clean the space for you each week.
No mom cave is complete without a way to keep you free from interruption. If your cave has a door, make sure you invest in a lock or a "Do Not Disturb" sign to avoid the inevitable interruptions from your husband or children. If your mom cave doesn't have a door, hang up curtains or install a room divider and close off your space when you're inside.