A lot of people feel the need to justify the decision not to clean their own homes. Licensed family and marriage therapist Jody Gilmore, LCSW, says, "Women are especially susceptible to feeling guilty for wanting or needing help. Often they see wanting to hire a housekeeper as a weakness, when in fact, it should be looked at as being very practical and even beneficial."
Diana Crabb, a mother of four who works full time outside the home, says, "I could hardly function without my housekeeper. She is a tremendous help, and keeps our house running smoothly." She adds that she's even more grateful for the help now, as her husband frequently works out of the country. "It's well worth the money."
According to Gilmore, Crabb has the right attitude. She says, "There are many very good reasons to hire help, and regardless of your personal reason, if hiring a housekeeper is good for you and your family, there's no reason to feel guilty."
It's true: acknowledging that you want -- and deserve -- help around the house can be liberating.
Following the example of websites designed to bring two hearts together, several sites match prospective household employees with those looking to hire help. Although there are several localized options, these sites typically offer placement services throughout the U.S.
Angie's List, an online peer-referral service for household help, is helping to level the playing field for many small businesses. Big companies and small companies compete side by side because it's based on caliber of work, not on an ad budget. On Angie's List, a company's flashy marketing campaign can't overshadow a smaller business that provides higher-quality service.
For a small fee, GoNannies.com gives you full access to thousands of U.S. candidates' contact information (a 30-day free trial is available). You can also post a job listing for a housekeeper, as well as other types of domestic positions like child-care workers or personal assistants. Members can also run background checks, verify employment or review driving records for additional fees detailed on the site.
Care.com allows to to run a free search for domestics and other in-home workers. Though some services require that you upgrade to a paid membership, in general, you have access to the worker's contact information, a short bio., hourly rates and availability. You can also access background checks and references.
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