Figure out where you're going to hold the party and decide how many people can fit in the space. Factor in the teen-to-adult ratio, as well as the behavior of your teen and his friends. You know how they act when they get together, so if they're a rowdy bunch, drop that number just a bit. Communicate the guest limit to your teen, and make sure he knows that you're not budging. Come up with a plan for dealing with extra guests, because you'll probably have at least one or two.
Stress with your teen the time limit for the party. Decide what time you want the party to end, taking into account local curfew laws. Be firm on the end time, and be prepared to start showing kids to the door when that time comes and goes.
As moms, we think every party needs to have a theme. Teenagers don't always think that way. Before you think up a theme and run with it, run it by your teen. She may not think it's as cool as you do. Every aspect of the theme should be discussed, from costumes to decorations. Also discuss any activities you have planned, because most teens don't get too excited about planned activities. It may hurt your party-planning heart, but less may be more in the mind of your teen.
If he'll let you, get spooky. Dim the lights and use a fog machine to make the room creepy. Gone are the days of bright and cheesy décor from his elementary days, but you can probably still have a little fun making things scary.
The last thing teenagers want is a bunch of adults lurking around. Give your teen and his friends some privacy. Stay close by -- but in a different room, if possible -- so you can ensure things don't get out of hand. Peek in every now and then, but be discreet about it.
One thing teenagers love to do is eat. Provide a smorgasbord of food, from pizza to chips to baked goods. Keep an eye on the plates and bowls, and fill them up as soon as they start to run low. Consider any special dietary needs of guests and work those into the menu, as well.
Let your teenager know that this party will not be a place for drugs or alcohol. Assure him that if you spot any, the party's over.
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