If you receive a gift you don't like, do your best to suspend your initial reaction of 'what is this?' Repeat back the gift to the giver as a way to build a delay to your initial emotional response.
For example, 'A wreath made from straws... What an interesting concept,' Alpert says.
Focus on the person's thoughtfulness rather than his or her choice in gift. Remember what your mom taught you: It's the thought that counts.
'Sometimes this holds truer than others -- this is one of those times,' Alpert says. 'So, you might say something like, 'It is really nice of you to think of me.' Or, 'I really appreciate you taking the time to get me a gift.''
Try to find something positive about the item.
If you receive a really ugly wool sweater, for example, Alpert suggests focusing on the warm part. Say something like, 'This sweater looks really warm and will come in handy this winter.'
Be brief, say thank you and move on by directing a question at the gift giver. Dwelling on the gift will only encourage conversation about it, Alpert says.
A good response is something like, 'Thank you so much for thinking of me. How are your holiday plans coming along?'
After some time has passed, feel free to exchange or donate the gift, or give it to someone who might appreciate it more than you do. Just make sure that person doesn't have contact with the original gift giver.
Especially when it comes to clothing or extremely personal items, it's common for the receiver to not like the gift. If you have doubts that the person will like the gift you bought, provide a gift receipt. Let him or her know you weren't entirely sure about the color or fit so you have enclosed a gift receipt. This helps to eliminate that awkward moment for both people, Alpert says.
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