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New Year's megalist: 100 New things to try this year

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2014: Your new year

It's a new year, so why not do some new things? From hobbies to bucket list items, we've got you covered with 100 new ventures to try out in 2014.

10 New things to try in bed

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Role play

If you want to try it, then do it! Just let your partner know that it's your first time and allow the giggles to flow. Do the sexy maid thing or try out "girl meets guy in a random bar."

Be selfish

Let one night be all about you. Don't let him reach the big O until you've already passed it. Check out woman-in-charge positions for more help.

Dress up

Grab a Victoria's Secret catalog and pick out your favorite negligee. Wear it one night, and who cares if it's only for five minutes? You deserve to feel sexy as heck every second.

Watch porn

Get a little inspiration from watching porn with your main squeeze. Take a trip to the video store or do a web search to turn up the heat and turn you on.

Go 50 shades on him

Love the 50 Shades of Grey series? Take it into the bedroom with a little dominance and submission. Re-enact a scene in the book or use our BDSM relationship tips for beginners to get the party started.

Pick out a new toy

Toys can be great fun in the bedroom, so make your sex life better by choosing one of your favorites. Whether you are a beginner or a pro, a new toy is bound to bring some excitement into your bedroom.

Learn about yourself

Your partner can't exactly find your G-spot? Show him! And if you don't know how, it may be time to look into finding it on your own. A little self-exploration never hurt anyone, and it certainly doesn't hurt the sex life either.

Speak up

If you want to try a new position or your partner to move a bit to the left, tell him! The best way to get what you want in bed is to speak your mind. And if you do, soon that talking will turn into moaning.

Use lube

Some ladies think of lube as useful only when needed, but really, it is so much more than that. Research has proved that sex is really better with lube. Find out the basics and how you can incorporate a little fun with lube in your bedroom.

Try one (or all) of these

Top 10 sex positions for mind-blowing orgasms. Enough said.

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