Body Image Is A Funny Thing.
For some of us, it changes so easily. Some would say it changes based on night and day for the average woman. Depending on how your self-esteem is, the average woman goes from feeling comfortable with her looks to obsessing about those extra pounds, even if there really are none there.
The main reason for our problems with body image involve where the image of beautiful women come from these days. We flip the pages of Cosmopolitan, Elle and Glamour
or any of the entertainment magazines, and we find "beautiful," thin women that are the model for all that the traditional woman should want to become.
In all honesty, there is nothing that is further from the truth. The more that we, as women, convince ourselves that our thighs are too fat, our breasts are not big enough, and our body will never get us on the cover of a magazine, the more problems we cause ourselves. This negative body image destroys our sex appeal, our libido, and can also cause mental and physical health problems, including depression.
However, it doesn't have to be this way. There are plenty of things that you can do to make yourself feel sexier -- things that will help you learn to appreciate your body more. I will be featuring many articles that involve bettering your body image in hopes that more women begin to see that being unique is far sexier than only being a size 2.
If weight has to do with your self image, you need to remember that you cannot just say "Forget it!" and let yourself go because you feel like you are not beautiful. Buy new clothes, dress sexy, and wear perfume and makeup. Show your lover that you feel sexy -- and you want him to see you that way, too.
As you pay more positive attention to yourself (exercise, proper nutrition, bubble baths, new clothes), and make a commitment to change your body, you will begin to feel sexier. As a bonus, this can lead to a better sex life and a more fulfilling self-image -- and as most guys will agree, confidence is one of the sexiest traits of all.
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