You are not the number on the scale or the percentage of your body fat. You are not the size of your pants or the circumference of your waist. Your self-worth, strength, value and beauty have absolutely zero to do with a number — unless you're counting the number of self-assured smiles you're doling out each day.
But you want to be radiant and ooze optimal health, right? So if you're not benchmarking success by the number on your scale, what should you be focusing on?
Simple — focus on the non-number things that really matter and deserve your full attention as you cultivate a healthier, stronger you.
Unlike the scale, these things won't leave you anxious or disappointed or stomping around the bathroom in tears. And while there are seven suggestions, I've saved the most important for last.
Is pushing right through the 2 p.m. slump no prob? Good nutrition and daily movement affect your overall sense of spryness, and energy is a fabulous indicator of overall body health. So if you've eliminated your fourth morning coffee because waking up has become a breeze, then you're headed in the right direction.
You can't be "on" 24/7, and just like your MacBook, you need to shut down and restore, or else you'll blow a mental circuit. And while everyone's a bit different, you should be off in dreamland for around six to 10 hours a night. So what does shut-eye look like for you — restless or rested? Eight hours or "Umm, I wish"?
You. Need. Sleep. So don't discount its importance. How much you're getting (or not) is way more vital to your personal health road trip than is a number on a scale.
Are you seeing changes? Are smiles happening more regularly? If you've answered a resounding "Yes!" to both those Qs, then you're in good shape.
So, how do they fit? Better than before? A little looser? If you're breathin' easy in your jeans or rockin' a skirt you haven't seen in years, then change is happening and you should be darn proud of that.
Not calories, but nutritional density. If calories were all that mattered, a cheeseburger could be nutritionally equal to a bowl of kale salad in the right proportions. Although your body needs calories to survive, it's really craving nutrients: vitamins, minerals and fatty acids — all that good stuff you find in whole, minimally processed, preferably organic food that you might be ignoring in favor of calorie counts and fat grams.
So focus on the quality, nutritional density and efficiency of food. And ask these questions: "Will this [insert food] make my body thrive? Is it feeding me at a cellular level? Is it loaded with the nutrients my body is really craving?"
The answers will change the game in terms of what you're putting in that beautiful bod of yours. And if you're not certain how to answer those Qs, then find a fabulous nutritionist or coach who can help you make sense of it all.
You may be glued to your cell phone, but are you connected to your food? Are you connected while you eat — really smelling, tasting and enjoying your food? Or are you just choking down bland calories in hopes of staving off pounds? Step away from the remote, cell, magazine or laptop while you eat and truly focus on your food. You'll regain your sense of satiety, rebuild your confidence and rekindle a deep love affair with food.
Aha! And now for the most important thing to focus on besides the scale...
Yes. The most important thing you can possibly do for yourself is to tune into how you feel. Because what are the weight loss and the treadmilling and the food changes really all for? They're for one thing: helping you ultimately feel a different way — good, confident, sexy, valued, loved and [insert feeling here].
So as you make these healthy lifestyle changes, the most important question you can ask yourself is this: "How am I feeling through all of this?"
That answer is more vital than your dress size or your arm measurements, and it's certainly more powerful than a scale result. Because feeling good, great, fantastic — regardless of any of those numbers — is the true benchmark of success. And that's the only metric that matters.
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