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15 #WhyIStayed tweets that'll give you goosebumps

Christina Marfice


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Christina is a reporter based in Boise, Idaho. She's a veteran vegetarian, a political junkie and a huge grammar snob. On the weekends, she can usually be found binging on Netflix, playing the piano or petting her cats, Daisy and Dandelion.

Women outpour with support for Janay Rice with powerful domestic violence tweets

When security footage emerged that showed NFL star, Ray Rice, full-on punching out his then-fiancée, Janay Rice, it made many wonder why Janay would choose to remain with her abusive husband.

Is Ray Rice's wife to blame for the attack? The Ravens seem to think so >>

Then, Twitter users from around the world gave us the answers.

All day Tuesday, tweets from domestic violence survivors flooded the social network under the hashtags, #WhyIStayed and #WhyILeft. Women and men alike rushed to Janay's defense, sharing the fears and insecurities they had experienced in their own violent relationships and showing us exactly why it's so hard to break free of the dangerous cycle domestic abuse can create. It turns out, Janay's defense of her husband's actions is typical of someone in an abusive relationship. Victims of domestic violence often suffer from "Battered Woman Syndrome," a condition that makes them stay in unsafe relationships for a myriad of reasons. Janay's decision to stay isn't her fault, and she — and so many others who are suffering like she is — needs our support.

By Tuesday afternoon, #WhyIStayed had been used more than 50,000 times. Here are some of the most gasp-worthy tweets from the movement — the ones that painfully illustrate what Janay Rice and so many others endure in the face of domestic violence.

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If you or someone you know needs help to escape domestic violence, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233 to talk with a trained advocate 24/7.

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