I am trying not to live so hard. I have four children, two dogs, one husband, and a tortoise. I live in the suburbs, and I am a recovering addict/alcoholic who is also married to a recovering addict with PTSD. I am an unorganized perfectionist, who is being public with my struggle to save my own life. Which in turn saves my family. I also contribute at Renew Magazine. You can read my posts at www.reneweveryday.com I hope this helps.