A 16-Year-Old Hit My Son's Car While Texting and Driving
One recent evening my husband and I were lying in bed watching our version of a bedtime story -- House Hunters International. At around 10:15 we heard the front door -- our son was home for the evening. There’s a sense of calm that comes over a parent, no matter how old their children, when the kids are all safely at home for the night -- and that’s what I felt as the door shut and the front light went off.
Then we heard a crash -- the kind of crash no one wants to hear.
Metal scraping, cement grinding, terrifying noise. Then we heard a girl scream, and our neighbor yelling “I’ve called 911.”
We rushed outside (in our pajamas -- remember, we were already in bed) and this is what we saw:
First of all, everyone is fine. Thankfully the young girl driving the car that flipped was wearing her seatbelt (always wear seatbelts! Even in the backseat!). Though she was hanging upside down until the fire department arrived, she emerged with just a few scratches -- and she was scared out of her mind.
This accident happened because the driver was reaching for her phone to read a text.
This sixteen-year-old girl, who had been driving on her own for less than a week, was so distracted by her phone that she didn’t even brake before running into my son’s car (that’s the Ford Explorer in the foreground of the photos). Though she was traveling at a low speed (15-20 mph), the force of her car was so great that it pushed his truck up onto the sidewalk and caused so much structural damage that his car has been totaled.
I tell you all these details because texting and driving is very, very risky, and really stupid. I have been guilty of doing it myself -- as have most people, I imagine. We think that those 5 seconds are inconsequential, and when we hear that “ding ding” that means we’ve received a text, that text becomes more important than our safety or the safety of those around us on the road.
Here are some statistics about distracted driving (courtesy Distraction.gov):
Because text messaging requires visual, manual, and cognitive attention from the driver, it is by far the most alarming distraction.
-- In 2010, 3092 people were killed in crashes involving a distracted driver and an estimated additional 416,000 were injured in motor vehicle crashes involving a distracted driver.
-- 18% of injury crashes in 2010 were reported as distraction-affected crashes.
-- 11% of all drivers under the age of 20 involved in fatal crashes were reported as distracted at the time of the crash. This age group has the largest proportion of drivers who were distracted.
-- 40% of all American teens say they have been in a car when the driver used a cell phone in a way that put people in danger. (Pew)
-- Drivers who use hand-held devices are 4 times more likely to get into crashes serious enough to injure themselves. (Monash University)
-- Text messaging creates a crash risk 23 times worse than driving while not distracted. (VTTI)
-- Sending or receiving a text takes a driver’s eyes from the road for an average of 4.6 seconds, the equivalent -- at 55 mph -- of driving the length of an entire football field, blind. (VTTI)
-- Driving while using a cell phone reduces the amount of brain activity associated with driving by 37%. (Carnegie Mellon)
Everyone needs to stop texting and driving. Me, you, my kids, your kids, the people on the freeway weaving back and forth…it’s just too dangerous. Tell your family and friends, and don’t be afraid to tell the driver of a car you’re riding in to stop texting.
Sharon Greenthal emptyhousefullmind.com
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