PARENTS....GROW UP!

PARENTS.....GROW UP !

WHAT I AM SEEING IN TODAY'S SOCIETY IS THIS.....Parents have become children and the children have become the parents....Something is wrong there in my  humble opinion.....Children rely on parents to be parents....to guide them through not just their childhoods but all the way through life.... Adult children still need their parents even when the parents are "old" and the kids are all grown up....That doesn't mean parents live their children's lives or vice versa....but it does mean that parents need to start acting like parents...rather than just their kids friend or pal....

Our children have many friends or at least have the ability to do so in most cases........Parents are to be great role models for our kids to have someone to look up to.....Parents have the greatest impact upon their children than anyone else anywhere.....So why is it that parents want to act like children in many cases rather than be a responsible parent?

I think it is in part because parents today are too preoccupied with too many things...Jobs, careers, dating (due to divorce), as well as simply putting "fun" before parenting...Some parents have simply become selfish....In many cases it is as if children today are raising themselves as well as raising their parents....

In my opinion many parents need to grow up.....be a great role model for their children, act like a parent instead of just a friend......and take their role as parent seriously....

Being a Parent is the best job in the world....A parent gets one chance to get it right....so they might as well get it right in the beginning.....Parenting is not always an easy job....but it is truly the most rewarding job if done right......knowing that we have the ability to help shape others lives in a most positive way......

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