I'm Not A Helicopter Mom

4 years ago

 

A few weeks ago we, as a nation, were pleasantly surprised by the resurfacing of the three Cleveland women who had been kidnapped a decade ago. Ten years! My son was only one year old when one of them was taken.

He just got back from a school trip with his fifth grade class. He was gone for 8 days and the separation anxiety nearly killed me. I can't even try to understand what these families went through all these years.
Another woman was taken nine years ago, my daughter is nine! I can't help but think about all the joy I have experienced all these years while these women and their families have been grieving and desperately keeping their hope alive.
A lot of people see me and probably think that I am a crazy, overprotective mom. Well, they are right. I'm crazy about my kids and I'll do ANYTHING to protect them. Heck, they might categorize me as a helicopter mom for all I care. See, I know I won't be able to protect them from everything but whatever is in my capacity I will do.
A couple of nights ago there was joy in the homes of these women, but often that's not the case thanks to the terminal illness we are suffering from as a country- human trafficking. People think it is only happening in other countries where the education rate is in the single digits and where technology is scarce, not realizing that it is happening here in our own cities, in our own backyard. I'm sure we could have more good news and more celebrations in homes from more found victims if we were to look beyond the surface. Let's pay attention to our surroundings because we could be the ones bringing the good news to a grieving family.
Stories like this, like of these Cleveland women, let me know that I'm doing my kids a service by being protective and aware of what's going on in the world. People may look at me and think I need to loosen up a bit and that's fine if they want to think that. I have been entrusted with my two kids and I will do anything in my power to keep them safe. I'm not a helicopter mom, I'm just protecting my kids.
I raise my glass to these families and partake in their joy, CHEERS!

til next time,
Cynthia

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