I Don't Need a Coat, It's Not Cold
Give the children love, more love and still more love – and the common sense will come by itself. ~Astrid Lindgren
Sometimes I wonder if the common sense is present in any kid today?
Now that the temperatures have plummeted into the negative degrees, I keep thinking of Kyle and his aversion to winter coats and long sleeves. Yes even long sleeve T-shirts! Seriously, it drives me crazy when he whines, "Why do I need a coat? I'm not cold, I'm hot." Come on back to reality, buddy. Even when the temperatures reach the teens, we all know that statement could not possibly be true! But he'll swear to it and put up a fight like his life depended on it.
Getting Kyle to wear a coat has been an onward struggle for years. In fact, I can't remember the last time he wore a coat, except for hunting season. What really worries me, is Kyle's not the only child acting like this. There are other children who argue about the same thing. So you mean to tell me, this new generation has some super human heat source radiating from the core of their bodies? They are the walking sun? Because that's what they act like.
Kyle informed me yesterday when I talked to him that school was already canceled. First of all, I don't completely agree with that. What do the children who experience these frigid temperatures as a norm do? They don't stop their life. Granted, those kids are used to the cold and that's a big difference. Regardless, when he told me about the cancellation, I was kind of upset yet glad. I instantly had a vision of Kyle, exposed, out in the cold, waiting for the bus with his hoodie on, no hat, no gloves, no scarf getting frost bite. Not a pretty picture!
Not that I want this to happen, not in the slightest, but it would be something for Kyle to experience the results of his poor choices. Now don't get me wrong, I would do everything in my power to ensure that child is always kept physically, mentally and spiritually sound, but I sure do wish I could prove my point without it permanently damaging him.
As I discuss this phenomenon with my parents, I came to a pretty sound conclusion for this behavior. Now I'm going to sound like an old timer, so bear with me for a moment and indulge me if you will. Kids today ...
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