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iam a divorse mom of two special needs kids ages 4 and 5 all three of us in with my pareemts for finacaial reasons
lately my mom is consistley asking me when iam going food shopping because she sees that iam getting low on food for my kids i said idont know when i will go food shopping but she keeps nagging me constanly and i keep giving her the same answer and now that answer is not good enough to them them she statred getting angry at me then the bitchyness starts she starts to yell at me after my answers are not good enought for her then my father buts in on top of it. and my parents feel that iam hiding something and not being hones because they keep asking me were did i spend the money when i should have funds left over my mom has threathen me that she will call cps on me for not buying food on there terms i told them i will buy food next week around wednesday that still was not good enough the argumentr got so bad that my mom calling every name in the book she threathen to call cps and poice on me then my father take my iphone away because he wanted my password to my bank account to check my account balance and i said no thats non of your business then things got really bad to were my father would not give back my iphone till i give him the password and he told me you try and grab your phone out of my hand your gonna be sorry and so i still try to get my phone back and then my father push on the floor in locking style and helf me down forcing and yelling in my face alot bs stuff and the fact that they both treat me like a child when iam 44 but ialso have high funching asbergers systum so my mom call me a moron an a hole and i should have never been born they would not let me go to bathroom when i had an upset tummy and when i finally got to the bathroom i barly made it as i was very close with going in my pants with number 2 i sat on the potty for and hour and a half because of my tummy problems my mom calls me an unfit mom and that i not cable of taking care of my two special needs kids who are adopted thru the state of nevada both my kids were born on drugs from the bio mother my five year old has rad and adhd due her being born on oxycotten and pot and my four year was born on meth so with my mom she wont drop the subject because all she says is iam a lyer and iam not honest with her well i have good reasons not to tell her any of my business and what i do with my money
now my parents want control over my finaces because they feel iam not capable being responable with my finaces every month i just recently file bankrupcy this month and i still dont have enought income coming in my mom is threathening me that she will seek guardingshipand and custody over my kids she feels i can not manage to take care of my kids when i been doing it for two years since i got divorse last year from my ex who was emotionally abusive to me what can i do ? can my parents seek full guarding ship over my two kids and take away my parenting rights as there mother when iam doing the best i can as a sigle mother of two special needs kids my five year is on adhd medication because that how bad it is plus a mood stablizer both my kids are very hard to handle everyday and its not easy every day i need help i dont want my parents to take away my kids because my mom is ready to kik me out of the house and give me an eviction notice w when i dont pay any rent at the moment becase iam finacing my bankrupcy attorneys fees for three months please help me !!