Insecurities are embedded in each every one of us. If we allow it, OUR INSECURITIES CAN BE DANGEROUS! Insecurities are generic and it can effect our daily lives in all aspects. It's important that we embrace who we are, learn to love and accept our imperfections, and be comfortable in our own skin! In order to do that, we first have to ask ourselves, "WHY AM I INSECURE?"
When dealing with the feeling of insecurity or not being as confident, it comes out in the way you think, feel, and act. You become doubtful, uneasy, negative, and especially feel like YOU'RE NOT GOOD ENOUGH! This can be considered dangerous to your surroundings and can effect your relationships. For example:
You see a text or number in your partner's phone from the opposite sex or they haven't returned your call in a specific time, you automatically think of cheating or infidelity. YOU GO OFF IN A RAGE OF ASSUMPTION AND MAKE THE SITUATION BIGGER THAN WHAT IT IS.
You're around a group of people and you feel like you're invisible. You feel like you have to be extra and over the top just so you can be noticed and part of the group.
Insecurities play in all different types of situations. The question is, WHY? There is a reason behind everything we do, we just have to find the root to where it all started. It could of came from someone saying you're not good enough or pretty enough. Someone may have said that you're not good enough or pretty enough. Someone may have said that you're not smart of that you won't amount to anything. Maybe you felt like you was always second best, average, or below average. All of these factors can haunt us and play out in all aspects of lives.
Once you find out why you're insecure or why you don't feel as a confident as you should, you will start to change and want to become more comfortable in your own skin. You will embrace who you are, and become aware of your imperfections. ALL OF YOUR INSECURITIES WON'T GO AWAY! YOU WILL STILL HAVE INSECURE MOMENTS! The difference is you can pick yourself up quicker and realize your potential and beauty inside of you. YOU'LL BE OKAY!!
Embrace who you are! Embrace your individuality! Embrace your imperfections! Be comfortable in your skin! By answering the question WHY AM I INSECURE will lead you on a path to being secure!
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