WHEN TO GIVE UP EVEN THROUGH YEARS OF RELATIONSHIP!!

7 years ago

Well lets cut to the chase-he's MARRIED!! There I said it. My story matches a lot of them, they just dont admit them. I am not wanting, needing and looking for help!! It all started 8 yrs ago when I was going through a divorce, I met the one?? He told me he also was going through a divorce. I brought him into my kids and my life and we fell quickly in love. We have had our ups and downs, and lately all he focuses on is the downs. I found out he wasnt going through a divorce and still stayed as he promissed one day we would be married! Then he has filed for divorce and now it is on hold as his wife isnt ready? What about me? How long do I hold on for? We have so much together, more than he ever did with his wife. We have a boat, house, trailor, dirt bikes, you name it we have it. She even comes and stays with us on the weekend to see her boys!! He says he doesnt want us fighting and we have to get along with each other for the kids? They are now 18 and 17 what difference does it make? He now goes back and forth from our house to his parents house where she lives? He tells me he isnt sure what he wants but that he is not with her and not to worry? She comes to the house and says he is never home and that they are not as close as they used to be yet she doesnt know about us! We are still a known sectret if that makes any sence. I get the strength and want to leave him and then I see him, he does or says something and Im right back in his arms again. What do I do? When is it time to move on and forget the past, how do you change the situation?

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