What is the Right Sex Toy for Me?

5 years ago
Choosing a sex toy that is right for you depends on what kind of stimulation you are looking for.  Each year, sex toy manufacturers continue to amaze us with the varieties of sex toys that they come up with.  Just as technology like cell phones evolve with the newest capabilities, sex toy manufacturers continue to develop products that spark the interest of consumers.  For example, several years ago, the Oh Mi Bod vibrator was introduced which can be plugged into an iPod.  The vibrations then go along with the music of your iPod.  Then there was the We-Vibe, whose unique design gave couples the ability to use the vibrator during sexual intercourse.
With the availability of numerous styles of sex toys, how do you know which one will work best for you?  Depending on the type of stimulation you are looking to achieve or if you are looking to use a sex toy with a partner are factors that you need to consider.  For example, if you are looking to use a sex toy with your partner, there are vibrating rings that are worn by the male that stimulate the female genitalia while potentially prolonging him from ejaculating.
If you are looking for solo pleasure, you can choose between a sex toy that does not vibrate or a vibrator.  If you prefer a non vibrating adult product, there are realistic style dildos that look and feel like the real thing.  There are also glass dildos which are very durable, hypoallergenic, easy to clean, and are great for people who have latex sensitivities.
If you prefer a sex toy that vibrates, there are various styles of vibrators designed for your preference of stimulation.  If you are allergic to latex, there are vibratotrs made of ABS plastic, Thermoplastic Rubber, silicone, and even vibrating glass that you can use.  If you are looking to stimulate your G-spot, there are vibrators that are curved at the tip that are made to pinpoint your G-spot.  Clitoral vibrators are designed for surface stimulation as opposed to vaginal insertion.  If you are looking for a vibrator to stimulate the vagina area and clitoris at the same time, there are dual area or rabbit style vibrators that are designed to do just that.  If you want a vibrator that is simple to use, can be inserted into the vagina or used on your clitoris, you may want to consider a traditional style vibrator.  Wand style vibrators such as the Hitachi Magic Wand tend to be more powerful than other vibrators.  These are also meant for surface stimulation.  There are also vibrators that are designed for anal stimulation as well.
Sex toys are not just for women.  There are also a variety of sex toys for men's enjoyment.  From masturbation sleeves to products that are molded from real adult stars, sex toys for men have grown in popularity.  There are also products designed to stimulate the men's prostate gland as well.
If you are still unsure as to what type of product woould be best for you, I would recommend reading product reviews.  Product reviews can be helpful in your purchase as you can see what other consumers experiences were with the product and if the product did not meet his or her expectations. 
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