Top 5 Ways to Get Your Man Back After a Breakup

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There comes a point in the relationship of almost every couple when things don’t seem to be working out like they would have hoped for. Constant arguments, fights, and even rude behaviour become sort of a routine in this situation, and if proper action isn’t taken, the relationship might ultimately lead to its inevitable end – a breakup. But sometimes, a breakup isn’t the end, sometimes there is more to a relationship than a breakup at the end, sometimes a breakup is only a brief hiatus instead of a complete full stop. We are humans after all, and any one of the two people in a relationship can be the cause of a separation, but that’s not the end of the world. If you are suffering from a similar situation and want your man back, we’ve got just the help you need in order to do just that, so continue reading. behaviour become sort of a routine in this situation, and if proper action isn’t taken, the relationship might ultimately lead to its inevitable end – a breakup. But sometimes, a breakup isn’t the end, sometimes there is more to a relationship than a breakup at the end, sometimes a breakup is only a brief hiatus instead of a complete full stop. We are humans after all, and any one of the two people in a relationship can be the cause of a separation, but that’s not the end of the world. If you are suffering from a similar situation and want your man back, we’ve got just the help you need in order to do just that, so continue reading. 

Analyze the problem:

Whatever the problem may be, you cannot even begin to solve it unless you accept it and understand it. It is only when you accept the fault and understand the situation that you can begin to find ways to climb over that hurdle. So when we talk about getting your man back after a seemingly fatal breakup, you need to do a detailed sweep of what exactly went wrong. Why did your man leave? Was it because you were the problem? Or was it because he was the problem? If you were the problem, can you change the things about yourself that would mean he comes back to you? And if he were the problem, can you compromise and live with those issues? Answering these questions can really lighten up the situation and tell you what you need to know about making a decision.

Don’t fall into the abyss:

Usually, after a breakup, men and women alike, drop deep into the black hole of depression and sadness. You talk about all the clichés like the sweatpants, the ice-creams, the chips, and the no-shower thingy, they are all basically true. This happens because they are going through a tough time, because of this stingy breakup. But the most important thing to do in this situation is not to get bogged down and instead, cheer yourself up and get back on that horse. Look your best, because when you look your best, you also feel your best, and this not only helps you physically but also helps you mentally to make informed decisions and approach your ex for a patch-up.like, the sweatpants, the ice-creams, the chips, and the no-shower thingy, they are all basically true. This happens because they are going through a tough time, because of this stingy breakup. But the most important thing to do in this situation is not to get bogged down and instead, cheer yourself up and get back on that horse. Look your best, because when you look your best, you also feel your best, and this not only helps you physically, but also helps you mentally to make informed decisions and approach your ex for a patch-up.

Prove to him that you are what he wants:

When you are vying for a patch-up, it is usually what your man wants too, and that is exactly the reason why he is willing to listen to you when you tell him that you want him back. But sometimes, you TELLING him, doesn’t put weight to your argument, sometimes he just wants you to ACT on what you promise him, because words don’t mean anything if you don’t back them up with your deeds, right?

Cross the bridge of APOLOGY:

Apologizing to people can be a really bitter pill to swallow, because of the frail egos that we humans have. But sometimes, to do something noble (like getting together with someone who you love and care about) you have to swallow this pill with a wide smile. In fact, sometimes you even have to apologize for things that aren’t even your fault, but you have to, because it is the need of the hour. That’s why people so rightly say, the bridge of apology is both, scary and lovely.

Talk and converse:

Often, the solution to our problems doesn’t lie in large focus groups or city-wide debates, but a simple one-on-one conversation with your man, just like an adult, can do the trick handsomely. If you are really serious about getting your man back, just arrange a meeting with him in a quiet place where you won’t be interrupted, and talk your stuff through. Chances are, if he is willing to sit down and talk to you, he is willing to have you back, but it is going to be a tough ask.

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