I was reading the blog of an escort who's every entry was complaining about her client's reluctance to tip her after a session, which made me think to myself; "Damn, if you weren't so freaking negative then maybe your men would come out of their pockets more often". I just don't understand why escorts think that they have this sense of entitlement when it comes to tips and gifts. As far as I'm concerned, all I expect is what's listed on my rates page. Anything extra is out of the kindness of my client's heart, and thank God that most of my clients have big hearts when it comes to me.
Now I'm not gonna sit here and pretend that tips and gifts aren't wonderful, because they are. What girl doesn't love to be spoiled and given gifts? But let's be real here, not every client is in the position to dish out extra funds to escorts.
This isn't a new phenomenon with escorts though because I know tons of girls that will put priority on the men that are good tippers and gift givers. To be honest, tippers get better service, more time, and top priority. Hell, I'm even guilty of doing that sometimes, but I'll never bitch if I don't get a tip. If a client comes to see me on a regular basis then that's all the gift and tip I need.
In my eyes the greatest gift and tip a client can give a sex worker is his constant repeat business, loyalty, and financial support.
As long as he continues to patronize me, then he's giving me the greatest tip and gift there is to give a girl like me, which is my financial freedom!
SO THANK YOU!